I need some female company

[BadlandZ 2]

 

...I would suggest that you try working on yourself first ( I saw that pic of you on the roof)...

Ouch! Uhm... Ouch.

 

I saw the photo also, I thought he looked friendly and had a nice smile. (mostly wondered why the two LNBs, can you get signal from two sats on one dish, if one is Astra 2, what's the other? Anyway...)

 

The "wreck" statement isn't one you should jump to agree with... Let it go, if he already thinks it, what point was there to pound on it? Just rude. And I've seen much worse looking guys with fairly attractive women (and vice versa), so I'd not hang it everything on that.

 

I'd say work on all of it together, as you can, as you have time, as it makes you feel better about yourself... and screw what other people want to change your image to...

[Guest]

I think Lavenderrain probably just got offended/disgusted by Grinner's attitude towards women or rather, how it appears to be after having read these threads. If some of the men on this forum cannot understand why women would find such statements offensive, well, it says quite a bit about these men then doesn't it. I agree though that Lavenderrain's assessment of Grinner's complete character was also not befitting. He can be a very nice chap.

[PES 3,977]

Why is this thread is the 'language exchange' section? Is Edbob sending Grinner a hint?

[Guest]

Tandem, yeah. Looking for a fuck buddy. :lol:

[Lavender Rain 7,859]

Grinner, below I have attached your PM that you sent me last night at 1215 that I just read. As your PM are not welcomed in my inbox, you are now blocked. As a compassionate human being, I do have some humanity and have sympathy for your pathetic plight. What I'm thinking it's your approach to women, including your overwhelming lack of respect for women and also self-respect that's evident in this thread and Part 1.

 

Regarding you" having suffered this problem for years and are trying to find a way out", the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Again, I would strongly encourage you to work on yourself first. Seeking a women in this way, I don't think will really solve your underlying problem with women or yourself. Regarding my comments being unfounded, anytime you put yourself out here like you have with this thread, you should be willing to take the feedback both positive and negative. I'm sorry if it sounds harsh, I just have very little respect for men like yourself who denigrate women. I do wish you all the best and hope that you can find some peace, love, and happiness in your lifetime.

 

 

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[sharpe 7]

Just wondered. That PM was obviously intended for u only. what do u gain by sharing with all people here?

[Guest]

@Lavenderrain

 

Although I can understand why you are offended by Grinner's posts, I find you posting a personal pm of his on an open forum just not cricket.

Edit:

In general to the men on this forum: Making misogynistic comments about women do not make you look cool or funny. It just saddens many women that we still have these attitudes in our day and age. Please try to understand that. Many thanks from another 30+ elderly flower.

[Lavender Rain 7,859]

 

Chill.. According to her profile she's only 8 years old What would she know of the world

 

Note: It helps to be truthfull with the details in your profile, so people don't get the wrong ideas/impressions.

That's very funny . Actually, I did not want to put my age, as I think my age is irrevelant to my "rhetoric". Although, I think some peeps will definitely not agree. However, the program would not let me change anything in my profile without adding an age. So hence I just added an age. I have to email Editor Bob and ask how I can add/change things to my profile without having my age. So that's the only thing that not true in it.

[BadlandZ 2]

 

As I mentioned in Part 1, most women want more depth to their relationship than a drinking buddy or a fuck buddy.

Uhm, being a woman doesn't make you an expert at what most of them want. At best, you might have an idea what most of them would admit to... And, I'm guessing, what they would admit to you (given your judgmental tone) isn't anywhere near what they are really thinking.

 

Do you know what the "P" in PM stands for? My gosh... If most women were like you, I'd consider alternative lifestyles...

 

BTW: Grinner, looked like a polite PM to me, I have no idea what's up here rear. I'm guessing that "F Buddy" is just a red button set of words that will cause instant reactions like this in a few people, so it's probably best to avoid that... if it happens for you, it happens. If you just have dinners and conversation with a woman, so be it. Kinda pointless to say "hey it could go either way" when it in fact could, you're stating the obvious, but the obvious seems so offensive to some people.

[VWSubie 4]

What the hell is wrong with a forum when people can't even keep PMs PRIVATE? Do you get some kind of sick satisfaction humiliating or even just attempting to do so LR? You're not being the patron saint of help like you think!

[Lavender Rain 7,859]

Ok, posting the PM was bad etiquette. Sorry Grinner and who ever else was offended by me posting it.

[BadlandZ 2]

 

Actually, I did not want to put my age, as I think my age is irrevelant

Cool, get that Grinner? She (as a woman) said age is irrelevant... ...so it's ok to tell everyone your only 25 in your description to get a date! And you play a lot of football too... that's something 25 year olds do, right?

[willum 6]

I don´t think being 42 and overweight is a problem, I am both, my wife has never complained. Okay, so she´s not exactly Kate Moss herself...

[sharpe 7]

 

Uhm, being a woman doesn't make you an expert at what most of them want. At best, you might have an idea what most of them would admit to... And, I'm guessing, what they would admit to you (given your judgmental tone) isn't anywhere near what they are really thinking.

Wise words BadlandZ. Somehow "I wanted to tell so" just doesn't quite say it.

[Lavender Rain 7,859]

 

What the hell is wrong with a forum when people can't even keep PMs PRIVATE? Do you get some kind of sick satisfaction humiliating or even just attempting to do so LR? You're not being the patron saint of help like you think!

Absolutely, I got no sick satisfaction out of posting it. I think what motivated me was angry that I would get a PM from him regarding this crap.

 

I was quite shocked to find a PM in my box from him and to read it was even more shocking. Grinner knows where I stand on this from what I wrote yesterday in Part 1 and he did not have to PM me. Again this shows his lack of understanding of women.

[don_riina 7,406]

Man, in Germany, if you are looking for a lady, just use the dating sites man, everyone does it. People that do not even really know what the internet is use dating sites here man. Fairly recently, I actually helped out a lady of 60 to register at a site - Germans are well into them.

[BadlandZ 2]

 

I was quite shocked to find a PM in my box from him and to read it was even more shocking. Grinner knows where I stand on this from what I wrote yesterday in Part 1 and he did not have to PM me. Again this shows his lack of understanding of women.

K, Grinner, take note. According to the in-house expert on Women, women do not like to take sensitive matters in private with digression. Where a man might have some manners, and try to handle an embarrassing or humiliating matter in private for the sake of for both parties, it appears women like you to announce personal issues loudly in public.

[VWSubie 4]

Ack! :lol:

[Lavender Rain 7,859]

 

Grinner, the line on looking for a fuck buddy is a big mistake. In my experience no woman wants to be a fuck buddy. They may become one, but did not set out that way. They want respect, warmth, entertainment, and sex if the respect, warmth, and entertainment makes them excited enough to want it. I'm afraid you've been watching too much sex in the city.

Thank you MadAxeMurder for your input. I find your comment to be right on point.

[phoenix-rose 32]

a) Grinner you're not a bad looking bloke. A bit overweight, but so what? Most people are these days.

 

It seems that you have a bad attitude though. Whether it's self-esteem issues or how you wish to interact with the opposite sex, most of femmes who have had ANY experience with men can spot that a mile away - especially if we're "elder flowers" as you care to put it.

 

c) Personally, when you say elder flowers, I think of someone in their 70's age wise. I hope you are/were referring to someone my grandmother's age. Bit of advice - don't use that term unless you are speaking with someone in their 70's. Better yet.. don't use it at all.