Posted 17 Mar 2007 As the title says really.. I aint looking for a relationship, I dont think, I am not desperate for a sex.. Having wandered around Marrienplatz today and seen so many "elder-flowers" (women of a similar age to me!) wandering about on their own, It go to me a bit... My life is a little empty.. so, any of you lasses wanna cheer my life up? G 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Hope you find that lucky lass you seek. Maybe in the meantime sometime you, me, and BadlandZ can go grab a bier. Til, then, ciao :) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 first rule in writing a personal ad: describe your best assets and sound upbeat. nobody wants a miserable desperado. are you really looking for someone to bring cheer, or someone to take pity? see dating for beginners. id advise ad closure before makign more of a fool of yourself. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 first rule in writing a personal ad: describe your best assets ... maybe he did? :P 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Oh, the power of spring. I think there may be something interesting about spring time that make people long for companionship. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 no woman will reply to this post mate. u need to sound self confident, be cheerful and humorous, this is what they are looking for. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 hi mate cheer up it could be worse you might have been Irish, they must be gutted with the french score 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Grinner, today in the Marienplatz why didn't you go up to some of those unattached "elder-flowers" and strike up a conversation, or introduce yourself, or even give them your business card and invite them to tea or dinner later? Spontaneity can be very appealing for women. I would venture to say, some of those "elder flowers" may want some companionship as well, but instead will be lonely tonight because you nor them made an effort to meet today. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 I am a little bit shy until I get to know someone or I am pissed up drunk!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 no woman will reply to this post mate. u need to sound self confident, be cheerful and humorous, this is what they are looking for. As a self-assured woman, I totally concur with what Sharpe said. However, Grinner I do feel sympathetic to your predicament. If I was in Munich today, I would invite you for coffee and let you emote on my shoulder. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Grinner it takes guts to write your post so you can not be so shy . Wish you good luck :) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 I have lots of guts... look at the sub title!! :lol: 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Oh come on...you can do better than that First post up a pic, so these "elderflowers" know that you are not a ball of hideousness. Next- how about you age, interests, basic info Third - really state what you are looking for in a "friend" Fourth - If you actually ARE looking for a relationship or to date then just admit that...state what you want and stop trying to minimize it. Fifth - I would switch to a humor tone over that moaning angst...it sounds pathetic Best of luck :) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Grinner it takes guts to write your post so you can not be so shy . Wish you good luck Yes, it does take guts to write this kind of post, but I think it also speaks to his desperation. No Guts, No glory. Grinner, had you been drinking when you wrote this post??? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 I am a little bit shy until I get to know someone or I am pissed up drunk!! Grinner shy? Never noticed 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Ok.. Fat Bloke, Lives a life fraught with danger. Looking for a "Female Friend" Not looking for a wife but maybe a drinking buddie or Fuck buddy.. I am 42 and almost over the hill... Did I mention I have a fuller figure? Idea woman?... Well Is there one? Thanks G 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 17 Mar 2007 Hey Grinner, I have a dating site with a few thousand women signed-up, quite a few of which are in Munich. It goes live in a few weeks, I shall give you a complimentary membership and you can jump in ahead of the rest. Just PM me if you want this. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites