Need advice on dating German guy

[ruapehu 3,756]

 

Seems Maths was not one of young stronger subjects Chocky...

 

When I last looked, 2014 was not over yet. So yes, the OP is likely already 25, but could still well be 24...your comment seems a bit nit-picky to me, Sir P - and the point is the OP is not a kiddy anymore.

[Sir Percy B 1,309]

 

When I last looked, 2014 was not over yet. So yes, the OP is likely already 25, but could still well be 24...your comment seems a bit nit-picky to me, Sir P - and the point is the OP is not a kiddy anymore.

 

Well you didn't have to read it! and I'm well aware what Month and year it is and she may well still be 24. Perhaps if you could tell the difference between nit picking and being sarcastic hence the we wouldn't be having this exchange.

 

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[poohsan 2,486]

just be sure that if he does present you with a dating contract you have a lawyer look it over and ensure you understand it before signing.

 

of course I'm assuming that you have already applied for and received your permit for dating within Germany.

[yourkeau 7,721]

And the most important: your dating contract has minimum duration of 1 year and extends automatically for the next year unless you cancel it 6 weeks before the end of the contract.

[cute_american_polish_girl 0]

i need advice when it comes to understanding German men and dating,i met this nice,cute German men.I'm 40 years old,he's turning 37 soon he's from Germany and move to the USA for work.his job is a software engineer in Microsoft in Germany.he said he travel a lot due to his job.he told me he works 15 hours and make a good wages.my question we didn't meet in person yet and he said he wants to meet me in person and get to know each other first before exchanging cell phones numbers,but he also said to be patience with him and he not at his phone most of the time,but after we talk about an hour to me it seems he took interest in me but he seems strict and tells me he doesn't want me on dating site but we haven't met yet.i haven't seen him since the other day and he said when he finished work or when he has time he text me.is this a wake up call for me saying he saying what i want to hear and not interested? or he's interested and give him time for i don't understand German men and why he tells me his business when we haven't met yet?i need help to understand German me correctly

[anne k 3,643]

The average German man is "45, 1.79 metres (5'10") tall, is slightly overweight at 83.5 kilograms (184 lbs), and earns €3,702 ($5,923) a month gross." Last year, he "ate 42.9 kilograms (94.6 pounds) of fruit, consumed 540 glasses of alcoholic beverages, wore pajamas to bed, watched at least 1,200 hours of TV, drank champagne at birthday parties, received new music CDs for Christmas, drove to work and had sex with his wife 117 times."

German men "have sex twice a week. Thirty-eight percent of Germans are satisfied with their sex lives. For 31 percent, a partner's novelty wears off after only a year, at which point they start looking for new thrills. Half of all men describe the first time they have sex with a new partner as anywhere from outstanding to acceptable.[...] Fifty-three percent of German men ... masturbate at least once a week.

Fifty-nine percent of 35 to 44-year-olds experiment with sex toys. The most popular products are lingerie. ... Seventy-one percent of Germans receive oral sex. Of those who don't, a quarter -- most of them men -- would like to. ... When Germans have sex, it lasts for 36 minutes, foreplay included.

" http://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/a-day-in-the-life-what-makes-the-average-german-tick-a-550107.html

 

The article doesn't, unfortunately, say what percentage of strict German men say they will text you when they are not interested.

[Uncle Nick 6,245]

*off topic*, It would appear that in Polish people don't leave a space between the end of one sentence and the beginning of the next, making reading strenuous for the eyes. They also seem to use captial letters sparingly. ;)

[HEM 11,160]

 

he told me he works 15 hours

 

per day or week? With either I'd be very wary.

 

 

and make a good wages.

 

Thats what they all say :)

[Erised 2,825]

Perhaps worrying more about self-improvement and less about what some guy thinks about you, might serve you better. When you are awesome all by yourself, attracting men, German or otherwise, is easy as pie and you won't have to wonder if he does or doesn't.

[optimista 5,885]

 

... he also said to be patience with him... he seems strict and tells me he doesn't want me on dating site...

 

I smell a control freak who likes to keep people on a shoe-string. Move on.

[IndischesMadchen 0]

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Hello,

 

I live in Bonn from past year and quarter. Basically I had no intention to come to Germany being an introvert I liked staying ducked at home in my home country. But after I came to Germany I started liking it as it is really Introvert friendly place. Moreover I find Germans really interesting. The drastic thing happened then is finding a German guy interesting! I really didn't find any guy interesting back in my country or even took interest in guys maybe because I was too occupied in studies, studied my whole life in girl's school, was head of female protection cell and am a book nerd (or did not find any guy sensible enough!). However I find this German guy really interesting and the best thing is he drains all of my feminism out in a second. We talk a lot but he is a kind of typical German guy who is like a closed book. We have not exchanged phone numbers or did any hang outs but yes we are in same student body and talk hell a lot when we are together (He laughs a lot and find me amusing). I dont know how to tell him that I am interested in him because if I wait for him I'll turn in a granny already. Should I tell him this explicitly? SOS SOS help required.

[Eupathic Impulse 335]

You need to employ more umlauts. I'm told that German men find umlauts very attractive.

[robinson100 12,828]

I would suggest you find something that you are both interested in and ask if he would like to accompany you. It could be a visit to a bookshop or to a new film at the cinema or whatever - just act as though you are planning to go along anyway, and see if he would like to accompany you. If he does, then you will get to spend time with him and maybe get to know him a little better - maybe you could grab a bite to eat, and simply spend time chatting and getting to know each other better.

 

It is always difficult if you are a shy person, but once you are out there any enjoying yourself in the company of a nice person, then you can start to reveal the real you.

[IndischesMadchen 0]

"German men find umlauts very attractive"

If only I knew what Umlauts are in this context :D

[IndischesMadchen 0]

We both like reading books. I like emotional novels and he likes logical novels but I am reading all the logical sci-fi novels he is giving me. I dont understand the books on first read but I read and discuss about the books. Yes Im shy as hell and that is what stops me.

[AnswerToLife42 2,491]

What about going to a Christmas market and drink (a) some Glühwein?

Some alcokol is excellent against shyness.

Hurry up tomorrow is your last chance for this year.

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What about going to a Christmas market and drink (a) some Glühwein?

Some al-cok-öl is excellent against shyness.

 

Fixed it for ya!

[gaberlunzi 814]

 

"German men find umlauts very attractive"

If only I knew what Umlauts are in this context

 

Better an Umlaut than an Umstand

 

Don't be shy, just befriend him and things will take the run.