Experiences with dating German women

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No LR your original post conveyed that German women liked black men because they supposedly have big dicks no matter what way you want to dress it up... and KV did us all a favour in pulling us up upon your own innate racism...

Don't know how you or anyone else interpreted my post to contain one iota of subtle racism or anything to do with big dicks. It's what you read into it. But whatevah. :P

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Why do some of you not take your sexual preferences, which I certainly am not interested in hearing/reading, over to the adult porn threads.

 

Thank you in advance.

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if everything is "in Ordnung" down there, meaning a nice trim and a nice taste, then sure.

 

don't you know that all men who have any wisdom whatsoever have done the finger smell test before putting their head anywhere close to that potential disaster?

 

furthermore, the girl i want would never be a girl who thinks sucking cock is wasting time. i hold people to a high standard, what can you say?

 

In my experience, german girls think saying yes is enough to turn a man on. i just think... BORING.

To be honest, I would never want to have sex with a man unless we're both fresh out of the shower and we both are smelling like two fresh daisies. That's simply the way it is for me. Btw, horseshoe7 that was not a come on. No pun intended. :D

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Don't know how you or anyone else interpreted my post to contain one iota of subtle racism or anything to do with big dicks. It's what you read into it. But whatevah.

Bullshit, it's to do with your style of writing. As a general rule people either write deliberately provocatively or they don't. Your style is the former.

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I guess its always gonna be difficult to judge a whole nation of 80 million. But on a general tone, they are very very straight forward, little cold, bossy, but painfully genuine. I had some quite bad share of mine with some girls I dated last some years. 2 of them were quite cold , bossy Princesses difficult to maintain relation with.

Now I am dating a girl who is simply a flowery meadow... always so hot, saying whole night "Ich will immer mehr :)", sometimes even I get tired, Jackpot?

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Can also be bad if a friend starts dating a bossy bitch; if the friend takes a disliking to you then they try and ban your friend from seeing you - outrageous! Or all the crap you have to listen to about how much work their degree is - they're 25 and still haven't managed to finish their degree yet and then think it's worth a PhD in other countries. I hate bossy dumb bitches who think they're it. I like very clever, very nice, assertive but not bossy, loyal and aware women who have seen a lot of things in life; luckily I have one and she's German.

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I agrees whole heartily with every word you said loyalty in a women is so important. Its more important then love. I hate this assumption that the "forever to finish dregee" is worth the same in others country's as a masters or a PHD. It is not. What do you with it. Nothing.. internship after internship. I give 90% of German women A wide berth.

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OMG this thread has gotten large. Anyway to stur th pot again about the beastly hairy German women and ask in them to sheave there upper lips on many are carrying a Ronny a Tash a damen bart, a freddy and there nether regions.

 

Here is an article from nerve .com

 

From nerve magazine

 

 

Dear Miss Information,

My new boyfriend asked me to shave my pubes. I said I was fine with that, as long as I could keep some grass on the field — I didn’t like the idea of being completely bare. I’ve shaved a few times now, and while I don’t mind doing it, it’s the growing-in process that bothers me. It itches like hell! Friends have suggested waxing, but it’s too expensive, not to mention invasive. I have to psyche myself up for weeks before going to the gyno. There’s no way I’m going to pay money for that kind of torture. I already practice good shaving techniques (I read up) so I know that’s not the issue. Are there any lotions or powders that deal with this specific problem? The ones I’ve tried give you a few minutes of relief, then you’re back to the same itchy place you started. Suggestions? — Epic Fail Girly Girl

Dear Epic Fail Girly Girl,

 

When I think of pubic-hair removal, I’m inspired to put my own twist on that famous verse by Dorothy Parker:

 

Scissors cause cuts; Waxing is pricey;

Clippers are blunt; Plucking is dicey;

Merkins can chafe; Shaving is rougher;

Creams stink to heaven; You’ll just have to suffer.

Let me make this clear: every method has it pros and cons. Even not shaving at all — which wins points for ease and convenience, but doesn’t offer guaranteed, widespread acceptance among sexual partners. (I know, it’s not supposed to matter. I’m a feminist, but when horny enough, I’ll take penis over principles.)

 

You can find a whole prison-cafeteria’s worth of bologna out there in the form of razor-company marketing dreck, bizarre home remedies from well-meaning friends (”I get smooth with a blend of crushed papaya and fennel seed oil!”), and how-to articles. I’ve tried it all over the years, and I’ve concluded that everyone’s skin is different and everyone has to find their own solution.

 

Mine is not to have one. I’ve come to accept the re-growth itchiness as a side effect of an active sex life, rather than continue to waste my time (and money) at the drug store. There is one investment I make: big, bulky, beautiful purses. They’re perfect for camouflaging a good scratch session. Swing that sucker around to the front of your waist and go to town.

 

Readers, how do you deal with your hair downstairs? Do any of you still believe in a magic cure-all?

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Some of these stories about German women being honest, but bossy etc really click with me. And I'm a female with German friends! I have picked up a couple of friends who, while they have lots of good traits, also unfortunately seem to see me as their personal improvement project - I am always being told what I have done wrong, or what normality rule I have violated or whatever. I made the mistake once of chattily saying I needed a wardrobe overhaul, which apparently was me giving permission for one German girlfriend to give me the rundown on all the things that I could improve, starting with a different hair colour.

 

The funny thing is, being blunt back doesn't always help e.g. saying "no, that doesn't suit me" or "no, I don't want to do that".

 

My closest friend is a woman who has spent a lot of time overseas and she's lovely, with none of these traits. Her take on it is that the cadence of the German voice is very direct and firm, while the English/Aussie voice is softer, so even if I think I'm being firm, it doesn't sound like it to the German ear.

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Yesterday I took a German girl to a formal dance. It was a wonderful evening, except she couldn't grasp the concept of who leads who while dancing.

 

I even tried to break it down: "Look, when I lean this way, then you lead this way. Not before." "Ok." *she tries to lean before I do*

 

I thought that I could chalk it up to lack of rhythm but, frankly, she has that in spades. She just doesn't get how couples dance so well--one person has to be in charge and the other has to follow. I assumed since I know the steps and she doesn't, then that would be me. But, no, apparently she just thinks she can impose her will on things and magic will happen.

 

Actually, she does this in public too--if we are walking she will try to herd me around like a sheepdog by bumping me towards some store, or will try to grab me by the elbow and lead me to something she wants to see (I can see why women find this so infuriating). So, chalk one up for "Bossy."

 

Anyone know a polite way to tell her to know her role?

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I think German women are fantastic, I married one , they have a knack of getting their own way, bless em

What, by ordering you to do it?

 

I keed, I keed... :)

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German women are probably OK if you're the sort of guy who is looking for a very long term relationship and even marriage with a slow dutiful house wife. I was recently in Madrid. One evening in the old town was enough to prove me I was right about German girls. They're basically boring, cold, quiet and grey compared with Spanish girls. I didn't want to come back to Germany.

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Yesterday I took a German girl to a formal dance. It was a wonderful evening, except she couldn't grasp the concept of who leads who while dancing.

Tell her the man leads and that the way it going to stay.

 

 

They're basically boring, cold, quiet and grey compared with Spanish girls. I didn't want to come back to Germany.

I fully agree with you fully... mind you I like Italian girls more they are more Loyal.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BsyC1SFXpgY&hl=en&fs=1&

 

He is Irish like me she is Jewish Italian... :) I day dream about this. :) it ends with "i got one question" .. she asks answer "how do you what your meat."

 

just once i want that to happen... just once.

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For you and all the other people that think German women *love* black man, I think it boils down to the fact that black men approach German women MORE than white men. Simple as that. Germany has no more "gotta have a brotha" freaks than any other country. Only difference is, and this is my personal opinion, I think Germany has more of a tolerance for interracial dating than other EU countries like Czech or Ukraine or maybe Spain or something like that. Combine this with my first point, and that's probably why you see a lot of black guys with German girls. I don't think it has anything to do with our size, at least not in relation to why they let us in in the first place. Being a black man, I can attest to being raised not to be afraid to approach beautiful women, as it was a natural thing to do. Being shy and too nervous to approach was something our friends teased us about, so we naturally grew out of that shell. But I actually think white guys have a better success rate in Germany than black guys. Because we approach more, black guys are perceived as players more than white guys. We've gotta go through a lot more hassle because of that and numerous other nasty stereotypes we must disprove before we can get to the real girl. Once that happens, German girls are cool.

 

My experience with dating German women is that they can be extremely mistrustful at first. It's like whatever bad happened to them in the past gets projected on you automatically, and it's up to you to prove you are not like that. Also, when German girls go out, get dressed up in the latest low cut dress, expose their assets for everyone to see, and mingle in the hippest most packed nightclubs in town, it's not, under any circumstance, to actually interact with people! German girls don't go out to meet other people. They go out with their friends to be left alone and stay in their social unit the whole night. Any disruption of that by an invading guy is rejected, unless of course the guy has good communication skills or has the whole rooms attention. A girl will sometimes reject you even if she likes you, at risk of looking cheap or eager in front of her friends. In bigger cities like Berlin, Munich, Frankfurt, etc, you have more of a variety of personalities and run into a lot of the women who have been outside the EU and are somewhat worldly. From my experience German girls speak English pretty good compared to other countries, and being a foreigner is definitely an advantage. Although I speak ok German, I usually talk to a girl in English when I first meet her. That's a huge turn on. Meeting the girls parents for me has mostly been positive. Mom's have always liked me, and usually ask to meet me before I can even think about meeting the parents. In no other country have I dated a girl and made to feel so relaxed in front of her father and mother. I like this about Germans. When you're in their house, you're treated like a guest, even if you're screwing their little girl. Being in a relationship with a German girl is good because most have jobs and good income, so they won't need to mooch off you for cash. When you're in, you're in, and girls I've dated would do anything for me. German girls are pretty honest and usually don't cheat and are not promiscuous when in a relationship. They can be a little overbearing sometimes with their expectations. I think German women have had equal treatment a lot longer than some other women, and as a result they've lost touch with or refuse the old idea of what a women is supposed to be. I'm not trying to sound sexist, but i've heard this from lots of German guys too that eastern European girls "know how to treat a man" and German girls often have to be charge or control the finances. A lot of girls have jobs, apartments, cars, their own stuff, and don't need a man or a kid for any kind of validation. That makes for some interesting situations for new marriages. And the cultural differences are not so vast, but there are some. Ideas about sense of humor and what is and isn't serious are big issues with my girl and me. Also I've heard from my German guy friends that there's a certain way to agree with a German women's conflicting opinion to yours, and still get your way out of it. It was trippy, but one friend explained how he talked his wife into getting the living room set that he wanted even when she was vehemently rejecting it at first, by convincing her to pick 3 of her best ideas with 3 of his best, and then choosing the best one of the 6. Although it wasn't his #1 choice, he still got his #2 and his wife was satisfied because she didn't loose any ground in the decision either.

 

Just my 2 cents

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Hi guys

 

I am new to Berlin and would like to have a wing (male/female company for meeting and chatting up women) I am also happy to act as a wing ofcourse.

 

lets hear from you. I am a young looking 50 year old with some experience and knowledge of dating scene but would appreciate a co-pilot!

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