I think it was Bridget Jones who said, as soon as one part of your life is going well, another part falls spectacularly to pieces. I got married at the tail end of last year, job's going well considering (I've been very lucky to still have one during corona), I'm now 5 months pregnant and starting to nest and look forward to this new phase of my life. And then I get a Kündigung wegen Eigenbedarf. In the middle of a fucking pandemic. And the part that pisses me off the most, is that it's not even really 'needed'. Apparently, my landlord's 21 year old brother, who is a student at the TH and still lives with his parents and other 34yr old brother, now feels it is time to (and I quote) 'stand on his own two feet'. Apparently, he needs a 'quiet place to study' and where he can 'invite his friends over without asking his parents' permission' and even so he can 'one day have a girlfriend'. I mean, what the actual fuck??! I can understand wanting to help out a family member. And hey, we all want to move out of our parents' home sooner or later. What I can't accept is kicking someone else out in the middle of a pandemic because his grown-ass man brother can't be fucking arsed to look for a place of his own so that he can have a place to fuck and party without his parents being around. You wanna stand on your own two feet? Then be a grownup and find your own fucking flat you bellend! It's a rite of passage! There is a vermittlungsservice at the TH that will help you find a WG. The majority of people live in a WG or a one-roomed apartment, or even with parents, when they are students, this is not a hardship!! It makes my blood boil!! What kind of person kicks someone out in a pandemic for such a reason? I'd be lucky if I could even manage to actually view potential places! And seeing as I'm the sole breadwinner and soon to have a baby, all of my money is going towards baby stuff and elternzeit, otherwise I actually can't afford to have any Elternzeit. I certainly can't afford a new deposit and a move. And the hilarious part is, he claims the flat is 'cheap enough for his brother to afford' - yeah it's only cheap because we managed to stop you from raising the rent as soon as you bought it you fucker! I mean, if this guy lives in a place with his parents and another brother then it's bigger than our place! I'm so angry! This is supposed to be a happy time and I'm supposed to be taking it easy but how am I supposed to stay calm with this hanging over our heads? He wants us out by Christmas. I will then be recovering from birth with a 2-month old. No, no and NO to that shit. So settle in cos I'm not going anywhere before my Elternzeit is over. I'm going to the Mieterverein and if necessary I will drag your ass to court. Over my. dead. body. are you getting me out of there before I'm good and ready without a fight, I promise you that much. Your poor little 21 year old student brother can just do one, as far as I'm concerned. Let the battle begin douche canoe!