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About Ana1984

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  • Location Munich
  • Nationality Belgian
  • Gender Female
  • Year of birth 1970

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  1. Dear all,  I turn again to you, as I have another issue that is quite pressing. I have a friend staying at my place, I live in Munich and have a pretty big apartment, however I cannot register him there (anmelden), as my landlord will not approve it. My landlord is never around, so it is not an issue that he is staying there.  My question to you all: is there any other place I can register him ? He is working, so he needs an Anmeldung. Most of his mail will still come to my place, which is fine, the issue is with the Anmeldung address. thank you A.
  2. Hey everyone,  I am following up on a post I recently wrote about separating frommy hubby. I thank everyone for the input, yet I really need only expert advices, if possible.  I am in a bit of a rut here. I am married to someone I need to separate from. Suffice to say, our relationship is not working anymore, and he is beyond ridiculous and psychologically abusive. We have a 2 year old. I already spoke to a lawyer. She told me that I needed to find myself work during the day (now I work nights), and that my chance of gaining custody (more than 50%) is very high. Yet I would need to probably move out to start the separation. My question is the following: Moving out to another place in Munich is real hard, the prices of apartments are crazy. Say I find myself a job in heidelberg (about 3,5 hours), would moving to there also work in order to start the separation, or do I have to live close to my hubby? My hubby will fight until the end to have the baby, yet he will most likely not gain 50% custody, as he has a small criminal rcord, very bad employment history and speaks really bad German (after 5 years of living here). I could make a real good case against him. However, if he agrees to move to heidelberg, I would be willing to share custody with him (about 50-50). This job would be ideal for me, and I feel I have no future here in Munich from a professional standpoint   Thank youl,    A
  3. Separation asap

    Dear all, I am sure that my questions have been answered in previous threads, but somehow I find all the threads pretty chaotic, and at the moment I am freaking out so much I really can´t concentrate on burrowing through it all. Thus I am starting a new thread. I have been married for 5 year and have a 2 year old son. Things have been going from bad to worse over time between me and my hubby, but as each month passes, it seems the speed of these changes is growing exponentially. Moreover, my husband is very controlling, and he is also doing it with the baby. I feel my child´s mood is deteriorating by the week. it breaks my heart.   I really need to separate from this deplorable person as soon as possible.   So how do I start? How do I initiate the separation? Do I need a lawyer for this? Right now we share one apartment, how do I get him to leave the apartment? He will not want to go easily. Or do I need to leave with my child? He will fight for the child until his last breath. During the separation, what are my chances of getting custody of my child?   Can I postpone the divorce or do I have to divorce within 1 year after the separation?   I fear that once I tell my husband that I want ti dovorce, he will blow up (as he always does) and throw my things away (or do worse things).   Calling the police will result in him in jail or will he just get a restraining order to stay away from me?   Any advice is greatly appreciated.   anonymous
  4. Dear all, I am going through a separation that will lead to a divorce. A few months ago I went to a social service representative from caritas and she told me I have the possibility to attend a one time session with a legal aid/lawyer on the topic of divorce for free. I think she said this was a service offered by Jungendliche Amt, but I am not 100% certain. I made an appointment with Caritas to discuss this again, but as my appointment is 4 weeks away, I am wondering if any of you know where I can find this legal aid and what is it called. I just want to get started on this as soon as possible.  Any suggestions are much appreciated.  Kind regards,  A
  5. Self-employed: client refuses to pay invoice

    From what I know there was a verbal Angebot only. However, the first client, after receicing the invoice (which containted price per m2 and the number of m2 done), wrote a text message back acknowledging the document and made a few suggestions as to how to correct the invoice (there were some errors at first). The second client paid the first 2 invoices yet refuses to pay the 3rd.   
  6. Hi all, I need your opinion and expertise on this issue we are having. My hubby is self-employed. He is a carpenter, installs and refurbishes hardwood floors.  He recently had two clients who refuse to pay his invoices. One client owes his about 2000 euro, the other about 1000. The second client paid all of the previous invoices. The reason for this is what they say they were not happy with the fact that he left the work unfinished (didn;t complete the project until the end). He says that they gave him a really hard time with the organization, and as a result, he was not able to complete the work at his own pace, and thus would have gotten too little money. He was not the only carpenter working on the project, and there was no contract for the work.  Can you guys advise us about some of the things to try to get the money from these clients?  Thank you,  A.