Kommentarlos

  Agreed 

  PS I have AlexTr on ignore so have no idea if I qoted her whole post. 

  No idea. Was actually referring to something else.   The horror.

Bitter and angry old man metaphorically shits all over women from a great height as he does not approve of what is being said and how it is being said.   I am flummoxed as to how this can still take place.

  You are not talking about refugees I guess?

  Who is implying what exactly to whom? Which sides? You have lost me here.  

  There is indeed a lot of superficial chit chatting and point scoring going on. It is difficult to discern from either side an inclination to examine matters in a critical and emotionally insightful manner. A manner in which compromises need to be made and points conceded.   At what point did people stop listening to each other and start talking over each other instead? Do they not realise they have become the very thing the claim to despise?

I miss @Grinner.    Seemed like an ok chap until his rampant ego got the better of him in and he needed to flounce. His reincarnation hasn't really been the same since he let the narcissistic rage out - which sadly hasn't been able to find its way home.     Surely we all reach an age where we stop blaming others for our own faults and weaknesses.

  Draining means different things to different people.    I like to fish my pasta out of the pot with a mini sieve on a stick. Then I can carry over as much water as I need to emulsify the sauce. But what pasta am I using?  How much water does it hold? Is it fresh or is it dried? Where I am going with my sauce. Questions, questions, questions.    Others like to put some pasta water aside and then drain with a colander, adding back what needed as necessary as they see fit.    Depends on what you are cooking really and what tools you have at your disposal.    I like a sweeping generalization as much as the next internet user, but not so much when someone is trying to be helpful and share what they do. 

  Maybe Kommentarlos is a current toilet cleaner. 

  Meck-Vorpommern coast can be a hard place to be in good health mevermind bad. Isolated and isolating for sure.   Hoping the OP will be kind to herself and accept any help given. It is a tough situation for even seasoned expats with good support networks.         

  Whilst dropping toilet paper and paper towels all over the floor for people to walk over.   And the state they leave the sink area in. At least men just don’t wash their hands 

I would agree entirely with engelchen.    I would furthermore add that you are not helping yourself by not indicating clearly where in Germany you are coming up with this problem. If you were able to say that you are based for example in Franken, or Southern Brandenburg or the Black Forest, people might have a better idea of how systems work locally and share their local  knowledge. They would also be able to give tips as to where your husband might look more successfully for a job to tide you over. Or where food banks are.    Nevertheless, I wish you all the best.    Edit: engelchen kindly came up with the PM / Postcode solution whilst I was typing. I strongly suggest you take her up on her offer.   

Daily Mash take on the chinless v's two chins   https://www.thedailymash.co.uk/politics/politics-headlines/which-of-these-men-will-be-britains-last-tory-prime-minister-20190621186809   Just a shame they are taking country down along with party.

  Aiding and abetting a know TT perp to run multiple accounts whilst banned. Tut tut tut.    Rank hypocrisy aside, do you go to TT jail for things like this?   A wry smile indeed