RedMidge

I believe the Uni Klinik in Munich has a specialist clinic focussed on Autism spectrum.  Have you checked Autism support groups, International Autism  Group?  They  may have good links and suggestions. Engelchen has given some good links. This is a tough time for you to  think of moving. I have a relative in the UK diagnosed as Asperger. High functioning, and is doing well, with a lot of support, funding, school partner, and assisted living. It has been a battle over the years,  and required strong assertive family.  From medical friends, I do not think Germany has quite the same infrastructure.  When she attended European events, and met other groups from European countries ( including Germany),  family reported they did seem to have similar funding.   

I really would not click onto a link that extensive!!!

If the other houses all had their own bin, then the collection lorry will have to use the road to get to them? So, you really cannot block this access road. Is it on your property- looks as if it is partly on the main road?

No discussion on this "Box" before you bought the place?

With AOK- they cover basic cleaning, and  a charge for more extensive cleaning. Worth the cost  6 monthly cleaning keeps the pearlies white!!

  OK John- you have not realised we can all enlarge this?😉🎉

I second the  belated greetings to Hem and John. May you both continue ad Astra in your own ways!

Salad Nicoise. Love tuna, but leave out the anchovies.

With you there! I switch off my old cell phone when home.  It is really just for  when I am driving. Use landline, IPad .

As suggested- join your local Mieterverein, and they can advise you on this problem.  Try and think of it as a budding Mozart next door😏

Luna- sounds like a very stressful time. Good to hear you documented, reported and are following this through. Good luck!

Best not to cross post in several threads.

Yes, lawyers need payment! If you have Rechtschutz insurance, then, usually, your fees are covered . Depending on how long you have had insurance, and maybe other reasons.

Yes, Mieterverein. OP- you really have so many questions that  you need some professional advice.  

Stick with the cats, John!