the vicar
May 30 2008, 7:09 pm
Very sorry to hear about the news.
Bell the cat
May 30 2008, 7:28 pm
very very sorry to hear this and hope you are bearing up sara. I expect it will take a long while to get over this but take one day at a time and DO rely on your friends who I hope will be there for you at this time.
sea-king
May 30 2008, 7:53 pm
I have a job on all Saturday night till bum o'clock (quite possibly 10am Sunday morning) but I'll be there. Hell or high water!
This sums all the things up that have been hurting for a long time, not just today!
One more day
HelterSkelter
May 30 2008, 8:12 pm
OMG... I don't really know what to say! My deepest condolences go to you and your family Sara!
I haven't meet yous two for quite a while now, but I still love to remember the first time we meet at this football thingie at the Chinese Tower, when they were interviewing the supporters of all the teams taking part in the WC. Everyone had to introduce himself and which team he'll be supporting and when Andrew told em he's supporting Scotland they were so puzzled "But they are not in there...?!?" "And so?!?"...
A good bloke he was! Will miss him and will raise a pint towards him tonight with alot of pride to have known him and loads respect for the man he was!
Batson Creek
May 30 2008, 8:54 pm
Just turned on for a late night check-in. What very sad news. Like many here, I never met him but the eloquence and humour of his posts were such that he was one of the few posters whose whole personality we felt we knew without face to face contact. My condolences. RIP.
elements
May 30 2008, 9:14 pm
As many out there, we didn't know Scogs personally but are saddened by your loss Sara...May God give strength at the time of grief. Our deepest condolences to friends and family.
Regards
Max & Sam
plastic
May 30 2008, 9:19 pm
Commiserations Sara,
I remember an enjoyable conversation with Scogs over a Chinese Meal
John
sparty
May 30 2008, 10:14 pm
Oh my god! I am shocked and don't know what to say. My deepest condoleances to you Sara!
wahoo
May 30 2008, 10:36 pm
This is incredibly sad and shocking, and I can't convey how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my prayers. I think Showem said it right- and may your memories and those of those who had experience and pleasure of knowing Andrew be comforting during this time. Much much love to you Sara.
Malt-Teaser
May 31 2008, 1:12 am
I don't think I ever met either of you, but I still wish to offer my deepest condolences,
MT
James_Runner
May 31 2008, 4:30 am
I'm so sorry for your loss!
douglas
May 31 2008, 7:36 am
I've only met you once, at the Genießen im Dunkeln meal, where you were very helpful and friendly to me as a TT newbie. I just wanted to say that I'm shocked and very sorry to hear your news.
hughk
May 31 2008, 8:16 am
Only met Scogs a few times and we were discussing about some paperwork problems that he was having with UK lawyers but lots of plans for the future (w/Sara). I remember Sara mentioning that things were not looking good last week at the Curry/Cocktail night, but I really didn't understand how bad at the time.
It is a great shame for everyone and especially Sara. Scogs was remembered in the biergarten last night (he would have like that, I'm sure) and our hopes are with Sara through these difficult times.
Exile
May 31 2008, 9:24 am
Very sad news. I don't know what to say, my condolences.
topcat 1
May 31 2008, 10:40 am
I never met Scogs and I have only met Sarabyrd once but I found her to be a lady of strength and dignity so Andrew was indeed fortunate to have lived his life with someone who cared so deeply for him. I hope his spirit and memory will carry you through the days ahead. My sincere condolences.
Duty Free
May 31 2008, 10:40 am
Dear Sara
I only found out last night - what a shock - I am so sorry for you loss and was just glad that I had the opportunity to enjoy some lovely meals and laughs with Andrew - he will be fondly remembered.
My thought and prayers are with you
Purple Muffin
May 31 2008, 5:50 pm
I was away yesterday and have only just logged in and read the news.
Sara I am speechless and really sorry for your loss. I only met you and Scogs once but you seemed to be such a great couple and Scogs was a lovely guy.
My thoughts are with you x
Punchbear
Jun 1 2008, 6:37 am
I only heard a few hours ago, my heart goes out to you and wishes you fortitude and sincerest condolences. Sure wasn't he probably in Heaven an hour before the Divil knew he was dead.
Loonyspook
Jun 1 2008, 7:35 am
I would like to add my condolences to those expressed by everyone else. I hope that your pain is eased with the words of support you have found here.
Tibia
Jun 1 2008, 3:17 pm
Never met you guys, but had the impression of a strong happy relationship, and to me you pair seemed to be the backbone of TT.
My condolences, Sara.
Jules Winnfield
Jun 1 2008, 3:34 pm
My sincerest condolences. RIP.
rubber duck
Jun 2 2008, 6:57 am
My thoughts are with you,Sara. My deepest condolence. Uta
kitkat64
Jun 2 2008, 8:52 am
Sara, I am so sorry to hear about Andrew. I was away for the weekend and just read the news. My heart goes out to you and H.Jr. Although I have never met either of you, I will always be forever grateful to you both for reaching out to me when I needed someone to get me through some difficult times. You know that I am just around the corner if you need me (you have my telephone number) - I will be there for you anytime. You have many many friends and I have no doubt they will be there for you too. Take comfort in the fact that probably a day didn't go by that you didn't express your love for one another - maybe people regret this, but I think you will find comfort in knowing that he was well loved and he loved you (even I could see this from his posts!).
It's hard to imagine reading TT without an occasional witty and amusing post from Scogs.
RIP Andrew.
condolences to all family and friends.
fraufruit
Jun 2 2008, 10:23 am
Sara,
I just saw this. I am very, very sorry.
Standing beside you with hugs at the ready,
Mary Ann
MadAxeMurderer
Jun 2 2008, 10:31 am
QUOTE (Punchbear @ Jun 1 2008, 7:37 am)

Sure wasn't he probably in Heaven an hour before the Divil knew he was dead.
As if. The devil and God are playing high stake's poker over him right now, while fighting massive hangovers, after he drank them both under the table.
Keydeck
Jun 2 2008, 10:34 am
Currently fighting an urge to break into a Chris DeBurgh tune. Must resist!
sarabyrd
Jun 2 2008, 10:37 am
Please do, he quite liked the song.
Now I don't know if I should wear one of his dress shirts that we bought at the gay shop in OEZ or his famous "God is busy ... Can I help you?" devil t-shirt from Tollwood that offended the Baptist mammy in Dee-troit.
Little Britain
Jun 2 2008, 10:40 am
Sara, I am so sorry to hear this. I only had the pleasure of meeting you and Scogs once at the TT North South Oktoberfest meetup last year, my deepest condolences.
DDBug
Jun 2 2008, 10:42 am
QUOTE (MadAxeMurderer @ Jun 2 2008, 11:31 am)

As if. The devil and God are playing high stake's poker over him right now, while fighting massive hangovers, after he drank them both under the table.
And he's wandered off to find something more entertaining in the meantime.
I was shocked and saddened to hear of this. It was much too soon, and Scogs will be sorely missed by all who knew him. My heartfelt condolences, Sara.
koshary
Jun 2 2008, 12:57 pm
Sara, I am really sorry I to hear that. He will be greatly missed. My deepst condolences.
Dear Sara, you and your family are in our thoughts. You've been the backbone of TT and always been able to cheer everyone else up in their times of 'gloom'. Hopefully the knowledge that all your TT friends care about, and are here for you, will help you.
Take care ...
Big hug ...
leisure suit larry
Jun 2 2008, 1:56 pm
Dear Sarabyrd, I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to you.
Dear, I don't know either of you but I just read in this thread you are a great and strong woman, hence will keep being... FRIENDS will never replace Andrew but they can help to smooth your loss... Maybe is hard now, but please don't forget to take care of yourself, those we love and love us will be there forever in our heart...
My heartfelt condolences,
Carina
3 Lions
Jun 2 2008, 3:27 pm
Sorry for your loss Sarabyrd, Scogs will be missed.
boomtown_rat
Jun 2 2008, 7:30 pm
genuinely really sorry to hear this news. Take care sara
DrivinWest
Jun 2 2008, 7:48 pm
Sara,
Scogs was a really good guy. He will be missed. You and the family are very much in my thoughts.
shallot
Jun 2 2008, 8:11 pm
Sara,
Really sorry to hear about Scogs. You are in our thoughts.
UrbanAngel
Jun 2 2008, 11:12 pm
Sara, I just read your update and am shocked at how things took a turn for the worse. I'm so sorry that it turned out like this, and wish you, your family and friends all the best for now and the future. Please toast Andrew for me at his wake as I can't be there. *hugs* If you need to escape for the weekend, come to London!
jeremy
Jun 2 2008, 11:13 pm
QUOTE (don_riina @ May 30 2008, 12:20 pm)

Fuck, man.
That is such completely shit news, and like loads of people are no doubt feeling, I just don't really know what to write.
As usual, the Don said it better than I can.
Last I heard he wanted me in a balloon - he knew I loved hot air balloons too. Couldnt make it as I am a tied down stay at home Dad. Shit.
Sara, hope he's up there now free from pain, smiling on a cloud with his legs hanging down from the cloud...
Superschnucks
Jun 2 2008, 11:36 pm
Hi Sara,
Like many others before me, I never met Andrew, yet from the warmth he has inspired, he must have been one helluva human being.
My thoughts are with you...
Wizadora
Jun 3 2008, 8:35 am
I'm so sorry to hear about this Sara, what a shock. My thoughts are with you.
Sara, just reading this after a weekend back home. Really sorry to hear this, hope you are finding the strength to get past this terrible time.
God Bless.
Scogs, you'll never walk alone.
Hippo
Jun 3 2008, 10:06 am
Sara, so sorry to hear about Scogs, take care of yourself.
OHDFC Colin
Jun 4 2008, 12:15 am
Hi Sara,
sorry to hear the news. Those were some great quiz nights we had together... my condolences.
mollym
Jun 4 2008, 10:10 am
I met both you and Andrew at a few of the TT events, I'm very sorry to hear this news. My thoughts are with you at this time.
marie-claire
Jun 4 2008, 10:48 am
Dear Sara, you have my deepest sympathy. I only knew Scogs from reading his lovely posts about your cats on the happy thread, he came across as such a nice person. I am so sorry you lost him
marie-claire
Streeme
Jun 4 2008, 9:05 pm
Hi, Sara. I remember that after my last curry night we went to that australian pub somewhere near Haidhausen. It was the first and last time I spoke to him.
RIP
MunichMom
Jun 4 2008, 9:53 pm
Dear Sara,
Although I never had the opportunity to meet him or you, I was very saddened by the news. A premature death always seems so wrong. My sympathies to you and your family.