sarabyrd
May 30 2008, 3:23 am
Andrew died at the Schwabinger ICU this morning at 2am due to complications after severe abdominal haemorrhages three weeks ago. These were in all probability caused by long-term consumption of ibuprofen in spite of a history of ulcers, malnourishment due to having half of his teeth removed or prepared for implants and a tendency towards booze instead of fruit juice. After initial stabilisation he took a turn for the worse and went into a state of shock. The doctors did what they could but there had been too much damage to kidney and liver due to blood loss. Other organs suffered as well, his chances of survival were slim, even partial recovery Utopian.
Two friends and I were with him in his last hours, holding his hands, chatting and laughing. I cannot express my gratitude to them for being there.
I am used to Andrew's being away on a contract. It will take a long time to sink in that this time he's not coming back. I did appreciate marka missing him, and anyone who made remarks that they might now consider inappropriate and callous - don't feel bad. I welcomed them as normality.
RIP, luv
Uncle Nick
May 30 2008, 3:44 am
I'm very sorry to hear this!
Mariposa
May 30 2008, 4:03 am
I never met Scogs (or you) but I am so sorry to hear about this. Wishing you all the strength you need.
Oh Sara, you two were so good together...I'm very sorry for your loss.
PS: And since its Scogs, I feel the need to say something a bit black -- ibuprofen, booze, teeth? bah. it was the
cat farts that did him in.
Carm
May 30 2008, 5:11 am
oh my god, I am shocked by the news, Sara, I am so sorry to hear the news. I am speechless.
interplanetjanet
May 30 2008, 5:16 am
I'm shocked...don't know what to say. He will definitely be missed. Hugs to you!
Cartooncat
May 30 2008, 5:22 am
So sorry to hear this news. Deepest condolences - and all strength to you for the coming weeks and months.
garibaldi
May 30 2008, 5:34 am
Sara, my thoughts are with you. It's very sad news indeed. I only met Andrew a couple of times and found him to be a fine chap.
My heartfelt condolences.
Frank
Pleb
May 30 2008, 5:38 am
I don't know either of you but my deepest condolences.
sea-king
May 30 2008, 5:43 am
Oh dear god,what can I say. Sara, I am so sorry.
Allershausen
May 30 2008, 5:49 am
Sara, I'm so sorry to hear this. My deepest symphathies go out to you.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Sara. My thoughts are with you.
Tara
May 30 2008, 5:56 am
Sara, I was always very touched about how warmly you spoke about Andrew. I thought, there's a lucky woman. I wish you strength at this difficult time.
coolerking
May 30 2008, 5:57 am
very sorry to hear this sara my deepest condolences
I'm truly and deeply sorry. My thoughts are with you.
Renia
May 30 2008, 6:06 am
I´m so sorry Sara for your loss. He was a lovely kind man.
Jeeves
May 30 2008, 6:10 am
Blimey. So little to say and yet so much.
I just wish you a continuation of the strength that you must have been showing all these last three weeks.
Crawlie
May 30 2008, 6:11 am
QUOTE (jml @ May 30 2008, 3:22 am)

it was the
cat farts that did him in
Agreed. Cat farts are the worst dude.
JerseyBoy
May 30 2008, 6:12 am
I don't know what to say, except that I'm very, very sorry for your loss, Sara. My condolences.
Moonboot
May 30 2008, 6:16 am
am so sorry, my deepest condolences to you and your family.
Johnny English
May 30 2008, 6:25 am
Gosh, that is very sad news indeed. I just don't know what to say. My thoughts are with you.
SpiderPig
May 30 2008, 6:49 am
Sara...
You had my hugs last night and I will never ever forget the Strength that you showed right to the bitter end!
Geoff
xx
xargon
May 30 2008, 6:54 am
So sorry to hear this... My deepest condolences...
Hammonia
May 30 2008, 7:02 am
Oh my god Sara, I'm so so sorry for your loss. I had no idea what you guys were going through.
I'm totally shocked.
Let us know if we can do anything for you.
Love,
Karin
Really sorry to hear about Andrew, cant quite believe it. I wish you strength and hearfelt condolences, Sara.
Katrina
May 30 2008, 7:12 am
Hell.
Even I am speechless here, it's too sad to even put into words, I don't think I'll even try.
My heartfelt condolences, Sara.
Jozi
May 30 2008, 7:18 am
This is really very sad news. Sara, much strength during this awful time.
leeza
May 30 2008, 7:20 am
Oh Sara, all my love to you... if there is anything you need, please call. I mean it.
Andrew was so lovely to Gabriel, even though I know he was in pain with his teeth. Such a kind man. He will be missed.
crusoe
May 30 2008, 7:22 am
Dreadful news, so sorry, Sara. Thinking of you.
dramadiva
May 30 2008, 7:22 am
Sara...I'm crying right now because the world can never afford to lose a truly good soul...and I'm sending you tons of mental hugs...I know what a strong woman you are...but when you decide you need someone I'll be there...
Panama
May 30 2008, 7:26 am
I had no clue about what he was going through. Really sad indeed. My deepest condolences to you Sara.
Keep being the strong woman you are.
canaryman
May 30 2008, 7:28 am
I do not know you but you have my deepest sympathy for your loss.
marka
May 30 2008, 7:28 am
My god, I am so sorry to hear this. Deepest sympathies to you and your families.
alimess
May 30 2008, 7:30 am
My deepest condolences Sara.
the_eagle
May 30 2008, 7:31 am
Very sad news.My thoughts go to you Sara.
NOFXmike
May 30 2008, 7:33 am
Wow, Petra and I are shocked, it's just hard to believe. So sorry to hear this...
silty1
May 30 2008, 7:35 am
Very sad news indeed. My condolences.
MadAxeMurderer
May 30 2008, 7:37 am
Terrible, terrible news. Can't say anything to make things easier, but I agree he was a nice guy, and you two were a great couple.
Hi Sara, somebody just called and informed me. People live on the Earth as long as their memory. Mine of Andrew will always be guitars, finance, humour, dealing with Dodgy 'arry and drinks in Planet M, Pippifax and The Beatles. He crammed in one hell of a lifetime into those years.
Oi Scogsie! If you're reading this on some celestial terminal: get the beers in mate. I'm not long behind you.
When's the funeral?
Love.
righter
May 30 2008, 7:38 am
That is such shocking news. I come so close to meeting Scogs earlier in the year when he was up here in Düsseldorf, wish I'd have tried harder to find him in the pub. From one ex-Rockape to another, RIP. My very deepest sympathies Sara.
Showem
May 30 2008, 7:38 am
I'm really sorry about Scogs Sara. I don't think there's much any of us can say to help you feel better, but maybe in time our words will offer comfort. Andrew was always good company; friendly and full of laughs and life whenever I saw him.
I think is a nice photo of both of you:
welshdragon
May 30 2008, 7:44 am
I haven't met either of you but this is truly sad news. My sincere condolences.
wd
MonksTown
May 30 2008, 7:44 am
It was an honour to have met, just a few times, such an intelligent, funny and generous man, who brimmed with life's experiences.
My hearfelt condolences to you Sara. I am humbled by the strength you are showing.
Hazza
May 30 2008, 7:44 am
I'm absolutely shocked to hear about this and very saddened. I often met Andrew, a lot in the days when I owned The Arc and even quite regularly afterwards. He was a top bloke, always good for a chat and I'll miss him.
I wish you and Mini-Haggis all the strength you're going to need now, Sara.
cabbagefairy
May 30 2008, 7:50 am
wow. I never met you guys but from the snippets I heard on TT he sounded like a great guy. Sending love your way and wish you all the best xo
moctoj2
May 30 2008, 7:50 am
Although we've never met, I'm so sorry to hear that Andrew is gone. As my favorite Moderator, know Sara that we are all here for you.
Moments Of Clarity and Tears Of Joy 2.
Ah geez. Such an entertaining guy, and what a perfect fit you were for each other. It always made me happy to see you together. I'll miss him too.
prijks
May 30 2008, 7:51 am
I never met Scogs, but when I asked for advice on traveling to Saudi Arabia last year, he had me call him and gave me a ton of good advice on the phone. Really helped me feel a lot better about going. I figured I'd run into him at a TT event at some point and be able to buy him a beer as thanks. His help represented to me much of what is great about this community. I'm sorry I never met him and I'm sorry for your loss.
Take care,
Pete
Fallen Angel
May 30 2008, 7:51 am
Scogs was a very lovely man indeed. I feel lucky to have had the chance to go out with the both of you on quite a few occassions and can't help but smile when I think of the laughs we shared. My thoughts are with you Sara.
Mik Dickinson
May 30 2008, 7:57 am
I only met the guy once i beleive but he seemed a nice polite chap.Sarah my condolensces to you, do not forget you have all them lovely memories something no one can take away from you.
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