Why are people saying just go home for 3 months? 180 days is more like 6 months...
QUOTE (bohemka @ May 14 2008, 9:53 pm)

No one will check your passport on the way and their system is overloaded now that they've recently joined Schengen. Thousands of Americans are living there without proper stamps and they can't control it at the moment. Americans have a grace period through June (according to my old flatmate there) and you should be able to walk onto a flight without a question. But it would be good to stay the full 90 days at home and come back on a clean slate.
This would probably be the kind of advice that got you in trouble in the first place. People who live illegally or choose to do this and that will make up excuses or "rules" for themselves to convince themselves everything is okay and there will be no consequences. ("Everyone is doing it, oh there's a grace period man chillax.")
QUOTE (CaliforniaCrocus @ May 28 2008, 11:05 am)

If you've been paying taxes then you've done nothing wrong except "forget" to reapply for permission due to your employers negligence to notify you.
Go to the immigration office and apologetically explain when you reapply. They know the law and that your employer is at fault.
You don't understand that when you are a rock star, you do not need to contribute to society with taxes, you can change the world with you songs and are far too busy to keep track of money from gigs or file taxes.
Dude did you even register your address with the KVR or whatever the Berlin Magistrate or whatever is called?
Your story sounds somewhat reasonable, but like others have said the border control and government officials will not care. Your excuses about never having been to another country are pretty laughable too, it sounds pretty obvious you knew that you didn't have enough information on what needed to be done. Also not having enough money to leave the country is whoa. I think you're up shit creek for a few reasons.
1) You overstayed by over 7 months.
2) You have not paid any taxes. You don't have a job it sounds like or a boss/company that could go to bat for you to try to sort things out.
3) Have you had valid
health insurance?
4) What is the incentive for the German government or the EU to allow you back in? They let you in once you disregarded their laws, but anyway during the time you did stay what actions did you take that in some way helped the country? Actions like this I feel hurt anyone outside of the EU who just wants to come as a tourist or come to live. A friend from Pakistan was going to come stay with me but wasn't able to as his planned 3 week vacation had to be cut short to 1 week because of Visa restrictions.
I feel for you in some ways but time to man up and see what happens. And it's pretty wild you'd leave behind your girlfriend and new life here to go visit friends in NYC. Still curious what you've decided to do.