QUOTE (cspunto @ May 18 2008, 11:24 am)

Thanks for the responses!
St. Jude's is apparently very good, but I'm afraid that Ethan doesn't fit into any of their present protocols so he isn't eligible to be treated there. We've looked into the Mayo at Minnesota, but our insurance doesn't cover us there... And we've received some bad news about a genetic marker (1p deletion) that Ethan has that means that the cancer will most likely be agressive. We're fortunate that he doesn't have any cancer cells in his bone marrow or any metastases, so he still has a chance.
We will be looking into alternative medicine to complement the chemo he'll be starting soon, thanks for the links.
We're keeping our chins up and enjoying the time we have together before his chemo starts.
A lot of doctors only focus on the chemo and its outcome, but it is also recommended that the patient keeps a certain diet after being diagnosed with cancer. There are certain food types that Ethan should not eat, ie raw meat etc cause this type of foods will feed into the cancer's aggressiveness. Of course keeping a diet does not mean that he should eat less, and he is probably going to lose his appetite during chemotherapy. You might want to ask the cancer specialist what kind of supplements Ethan should take to support his immune system after chemo. I know all of this cause I had a couple of relatives who had aggressive cancer tumors and got healed with the right therapy and diet.
Of course this is very hard, but try to engage is fun activities with Ethan and keep a positive attitude. Patients especially children patients do sense the desperation and sadness if you are sad about their situation and this can affect their mood and hence affecting their immune system in return.
There is a Selbsthilfegruppe in Frankfurt for children cancer patients and their families.
Hilfe für krebskranke KinderI wish Ethan speedy recovery and please note that children have more chance of surviving cancer so keep your chin up.