Hi Yraunaj -
I have lived in both places, as noted good S-Bahn connection, has a nice trail system along the
Isar River, otherwise not much of a village feeling. Erding - have never had problem with S-Bahn S-2 terminating, however i usually ride on weekends. S-Bahn will get you closer to Hallbergmoos living in Ismanning. Erding has a nice village feeling to it. Agree with topcat 1 post, I drive my wife to work and have the car for freedom and if she needs it, I plan things around the house. Good Luck