Too shy to say "hi" and I don't know who she is

hi kent73,

I love the idea however I'm sorry I can't grant you that wish at the moment. Can I come back to your offer again?
Marcus

Hullo Lavender Rain,

you appear in the right places ...uh I love it. The question however refers to Eugene_ac's pseudomedical term "SÜD" (Post #41). But how about the task for lifeIsaBuffet ...

Post #46 and #47

Thanks helpus, shyness however indeed is an ailment. And I don't want to hide behind that too much. Being "sexually unbalanced" can make this a vicious circle. And from there...which man doesn't wish for a "secred chamber" ...BattalionBoy talks of?

*yawn*

To Post #40: Hi Lifeisabuffet,

just saw your film today. I love the humor in it especially the remark in the end: "buy this shit".

comments:
* romance is important, starting the conversation in the suggested manner (the attention part is not in the film!!!) nevertheless leads to being categorized as "out of date" and would still leave her in the come-on-rejection-autopilot.

* a charming refusal as the woman tended to start before she looked in the book...still makes her charming although dirty talk is what men like to hear ...but in sexual terms...and they don't just want sex.

Hi Ruthie,

when did you start yawning in the internet?

Maybe you could compose a song for her and sing it on local radio. "Wo bist du, mein Sonnenlicht". Hmm, sounds familiar.

When I realize someone started a thread because he was bored. Started saying he fell in love, but then went on to talk about the pressure of sperm in his balls (okay, Lavender Rain started it, but still). Are we supposed to take you seriously?

Hi Ruthie,
thank you for your comment. I'm afraid you misunderstood. I was not talking of "pressure of my"..you have to read carefully, you would also see it's still the topic but with the people integrated. By the way...changig the title would mean to start without all those nice people here..who would be so naive they would all go with you then?

To Post #57: So you wanted to say you know a song of the title?

Beadle will haunt us from the grave.

And still make us chuckle.

Good spot Ruthie!

http://youtube.com/watch?v=gCRMzm6t-Ck

just wanted to add...do u know for sure..shes not taken??..well..spend a lil time on it...n then get along with ur life...if its meant to be..u'd run into her again...if not...u'd meet somebody else..who'd prolly suit u better...considering...u dont know much about her...other than how she looks like..and sounds like...uve no clue as to what she maybe like as a person...or her sexual orientation for that matter. dont mean to sound like a pessimist.

if you want to meet an english, GO TO ENGLAND. its an hour on the plane to london, and if you can find one from ESSEX, all the better, they would definatley sort your swollen bollox out

Doesn't even have to be Essex. English girls are known to be the friendliest in Europe these days.

and the most relaxed, they spend most of their time laying on their backs

Hey guys, look at Von,
he has no gender in his profile and otherwise hides behind a cross. Well done.

Hi helpus,
it does not matter so much whether she is "taken" or not.
She's likely having a boyfriend. I mean her voice was incredible...and it tells more than what you might think.

post #64

Hi ajm1976,

fine you're bak again. You've definitely got it going and must talk from your experience. But to me time is a limiting factor and it's not very realistic to talk of an hour for the trip since I first have to get to the airport (with no car this takes time), it takes time to get the ticket, packing and so on. And why are you talking of one way only...I mean...do I get there and then I get some money somewhere...
nice try.

Hi kent_73,

In my opinion russians are not bad either. To whom do you compare English girls? And if you can answert that, would you dare to talk of your experience with them, is it nice to...comunicate with them?

MAL

am i assume that you wish to put next to fuck all effort into this yourself. I think what you are really looking for is an english speaking BRASS, who will "blow and go". If your next excuse is "thats too expensive", then I suggest you take a leaf out of the "american pie" films and try one of mommas finest home bakes

Hi ajm1976,
obviously you can't imagine a life being filled out with one's fulfilling work and also being dependent on that work. I for example want to be a good teamplayer with the girl I'm looking for. But when we do not fit there's no fault in trying...you've thought about that...or do you rather prefer seeing life as "american pie".
Anyway you probably didn't get kent 73's message nor what I said about russian girls. But films can change ones perception. And the one's who make films can have a lot of power. You probably will never notice that.

What did I write?!

Hi Kent 73,

Yo wrote Post #65: "Doesn't even have to be Essex. English girls are known to be the friendliest in Europe these days."

Marcus

...kent 73...I asked you in Post #70.

There's about 50 million people in England, half of whom are females. Of those within the 18-40 age bracket, some are beautiful, some pig-ugly, some cute, some are bitches, but all will drink just as much as you (or at least try). It's too easy too generalise, but i guess English girls are fun to be with compared to girls from other countries in Europe, but generally you see that they care less about how they present themselves also, which is unfortunate (and so they get a bad reputation). If you found one you liked, then just ask her out or at least stalk her for a bit unitl she calls the police. Good luck!

a stalking feeling is in every approach, however i don't know if stalking only is such a good advice. Thanks for your post

"Von" obviously agrees with "Ruthie", and it feels great making people happy who share the same interests.
I haven't heard of the song before. The singers are apparentyl enjoying themselves via singing. Maybe one should sing along too just to get that feeling. ...

Hi out there,
all satisfied yet?

Thanks for your ideas BattalionBoy, you're real and really nice.
But as the current timetable allows I asked a Canadian English-teacher...who by the way studied psychology...to talk with me for an hour...it's somehow sad but I might be willing to pay her "her" 20 Euros. It's at least some kind of start. Hope to learn some English. At least the professional setting lets me gain an impression... why not.

Hi "M Always"~

Sorry you missed the opportunity to officially meet this young lady. I would suggest that you keep going by the same place and get out and about in the area more. People are creatures of habit and usually return to the same places. I don't know anything about this girl, but there's a good chance that she either lives somewhere around the area you initally saw her, works in the area, or freqents the area. If you have time on your hands and are truly "smitten" by her, why not? The next time you run into her~or anyone else you're interested in~talk to them! Give them YOUR phone number and say, "If you'd like to meet and have coffee sometime, give me a call. No strings attached." The ball will be in her court then. Best of luck to you!