Asian girl and a German man, can there be love?

Most of these Asian women come from third world countries and are very eager to latch on to a Western man so that they can get out of their poor country. It works both ways, some western men want a pliable young thing that won't answer back and also satisfy his sexual needs.
Must say I don't tend to gell with these types of men who marry young third world women - I don't have much respect for them. They are not capable of getting an attractive, strong, financially independent western woman!

Many pre-judge Asian women as poor and gold-digging for Western men. Fact of the matter is that a lot of women from poorer countries like the Philippines, for example, are well-trained teachers, nurses, even doctors, who choose to work as domestics in the west or in rich areas of Asia like Hong Kong because they make more money. It's not like they're all sitting in some shanty-town waiting to latch onto some white guy.

As for men who prefer Asian women. Don't knock it 'til you've tried it.

Arriane

You have to provide good advice to your friend. You have never experienced it and most people who answered have never experienced it too. You and them have come to a conclusion that age difference is wrong. (You know those people who say oh my god this should not happen – society *****.They only know that it will happen the day it will happen to them. Then some act on and some do not) Your friend is acting on it and if any more results come –ve or +ve then there you go. Based on age difference and culture differences you are giving advice to your friend that it is not good for her to go ahead. Nah that is not good advice. You really do not know what will happen if they fall in love.

Many people with same cultures, small age difference, have problems and also get divorced. Why assume that age difference will cause their relationship to falter. Would you know that your relationship/s will be better than this one if she would start? Nah! if she. You are guessing and advice based on guessing is no good. Do many people understand love? Hmmn. Be good to your friend.

If the man is not interested ok. If he gets interested let it be. Just be good to your self and your friend. Support her either way she takes.

@Liebe: Thank you for your reply. I'd prefer your reply than some other people's, e.g Shirley Forrester's.

@ Shirley Forrester ONLY [not to anyone else]:

How would you define a country a third-world country? Have you ever been to any third-world country and lived there long enough to know clearly how it is?If yes, then it would be a surprise to me.


"Shoppaholic" western housewives of super rich western men tend to take a half of the properties after getting divorced, don't they?
You guys, I know it's quite offensive to say that some western people came to my country and stole lots of valuable stuffs, e.g cellphones, but it's true and I've seen one like that. Some unemployed people come to Eastern countries to hide away from 6 cold and windy months in the West and then get back to their countries to get money from their government. Some gay people from Western countries come to countries like mine to "have sex" [more clearly, to RAPE] under-aged children. I don't mean this applies to all of you here, in this forum. But I do get hurt when "an attractive, strong, financially independent western woman" [I'm not really sure about this] pointed at "most of these Asian women coming from third world countries" while she's only read a situation happening to ONE Asian girl. That a woman comes from Asia DOESN'T mean she is very eager to latch on to a Western man so that she can get out of her poor country.


Through this statement of yours, I'm definitely sure that you know nothing about what you are talking about, neither the characteristics of people in countries you called "third-world" countries nor the culture here.


You meant all western women were (more) attractive, strong and financially independent? And all western men HAVE TO fall for women with that such characteristics? To tell the truth, all these characteristics are nothing if the woman who has them is not capable of being a good wife.

I don't thank you for your reply but I do, somehow, have a worse look about "Western women" like YOU.

Oh, one more thing to say: Shirley, you are digressing from the topic.

German and Asian can work, age differences aren´t always a stumbling block. The point here is just that the guy seems not to be interested!

In most of the case, it certainly applies.


Western men are certainly capable of finding such women. This is very easy and not a big deal at all. But have you ever asked yourself the question if they are ready to marry such a woman, a so called modern, confident, westernised, independent (especially sexually independent) woman, having had lot of affairs, being two three times divorced, may be, having kids, having started to sleep around at the early age of 13. Many men don't appreciate such women. What use is there of marrying them ? Western men can "have them" without marriage anytime anywhere. So why to take the burden of commitment with such a woman and risk financial disadvantages or being financially ruined in the end like many of the divorced victims nowadays ? Two out of the three married partners in Germany cheat the other. So tell me the use of such a marriage for getting church bells and good food at the marriage day for some moment.

Is that so? Would you like to substantiate your claim, instead of generalising?

An interesting debate. The possibility remains..that they may actually be in love. But that doesnt deny the possibility..that either one or both may have a hidden agenda. However, it is their life...and hence it is their decision to decide what is right n wrong n if they're making a mistake..it is for them to find out if they're right. As a friend..one can only advise.

As for the misconception that asian women hook on to western man (be it for cash or a PR)...i think that depends on the individual.

And I from personal experience...from a person who has met women of the western world and the asian world...i think..that...the ideas that an asian women may not have been around with that many guys or may not be financially independent of her spouse etc etc...isnt very current. it really depends on the individual. Ive known a good number of asian women..married to totally loyal husbands who have had multiple extramarital affairs.

Except that it takes two to tango.