I'll say again, your handling your MIL's passing away is indeed a private business and I respect anything you would decide about her. If you want to go to her grave and put flowers on it, if you want to sing and dance and have cartoons made in her name, if you want to piss her name in the snow in remembrance - I couldn't care less. It's your business and nobody but you and the rest of her loved ones has any bearing on it.
But this has absolutely no bearing on the discussion about this parade, as I tried to make clear before. Because in this land, observing a national memory day of the large list of victims of its previous regime is not a private issue. It's a national and social issue. Keeping this afloat and in memory will serve the best of this society for many different reasons (a discussion which is slightly tangential here so I will not enter it), and it's exactly these gestures, such as rerouting a parade like this or simply and easily moving it to another day, that broadcasts to anyone involved - we still remember, there is something to remember there, and we won't forget that easy. So it won't happen again. It's all cheesy and cliche-ridden, but it sound like that because most people don't need simple things like this explained to them.
But this has absolutely no bearing on the discussion about this parade, as I tried to make clear before. Because in this land, observing a national memory day of the large list of victims of its previous regime is not a private issue. It's a national and social issue. Keeping this afloat and in memory will serve the best of this society for many different reasons (a discussion which is slightly tangential here so I will not enter it), and it's exactly these gestures, such as rerouting a parade like this or simply and easily moving it to another day, that broadcasts to anyone involved - we still remember, there is something to remember there, and we won't forget that easy. So it won't happen again. It's all cheesy and cliche-ridden, but it sound like that because most people don't need simple things like this explained to them.
I disagree with that. National days do little to really broaden anything. Those that are interested/educated already know.
Education is for the schools. Everybody should be taught what happened and the broader leasons for humanity of how these things happened, and continue to happen, throughout the world.
