QUOTE (tallpaul @ Jan 11 2008, 9:46 pm)

England is falling apart,i live in a small town in lincs,Stamford - some of you must not appreciate the drink and dope culture that is prevalent in 12 to 13 year olds in middle england.- I will miss England but not as much as i am looking forward to being "German".any replies welcomed.
I totaly agree, as I said in my first post on TT (Returning to the UK after a long time in Germany) I returned here after 18 years in Germany. I definately wish I hadn't, I will definately be returning to Germany asap. The trouble was with me that after being gone for so long, only going back once a year and having no English TV or radio (had no satelite dish), I had no idea how the Uk had become. Sure Germany has problems, but not even half as many as the UK, they will also deal with them better than we do.
Immigration is not really the problem, it is normal for people to want a better life,I am doing the same by going back to Germany. The problem here in the UK is how we deal with immigration. For instance instead of sending assylum seakers home who break the law, we give give them a room and pocket money. It is this PC crap again everyone is terrified of saying their mind here.
I think Germans are obliged to support their children for far longer and far more than we do in UK, it is not a topic I know much about though. Unemployment is high in Eastern Germany and possibly in parts of Western Germany too. But many parts of Germany have a far more comfortable and easier life style than we do.
You ought to get your wife to speak as much German with you as possible, in your line of work it will be vastly important I think, the sooner you start with the German the easier it will be. Your only chance might be to just move to Germany and try, it will be hard at first but worth it in the end, if you really want to make a go of it, you will. It sounds like you won't make the same mistakes that I made, ie thinking too much of the things you miss instead of concentrating on the positive side.
Give it a go, you might never look back, and if you do the Uk will still be there and you never know buying a place to live might even be affordable for the average person.