QUOTE (aahackett @ Dec 30 2007, 4:17 pm)

We do not want to go back to the states there is nothing there for us anymore. That is why we are trying to find a way to stay here.
This is what I don't understand. I am American, and want desperately to move to Berlin, but I am not military. I'm an old socialist from Berkeley! Usually, military families are very pro-American which is why they join the military, in the first place.
I can understand wanting to get out of the US. I for one, can not stomach the direction America has been headed since the Bushe's took control. Perhaps if one of the Democrats manages to take the throne away things will get better, but I doubt it. America, has unfortunately become too corporate and greedy. But why, would a military family say theres nothing back there left for us? I'm an old leftie, so it makes sense that I don't want to stay here. But someone who enlisted in the US military? I realize I'm being redundant, sorry!
I would suggest just keeping your citizenship, learning German and looking for work when it is near time for your husbands discharge. I would also be very cautious of "big brother". There is no anonymity on the internet.