@aahackett
1. You said your parents and grand parents are not/were not German citizens, Thus you are disqualified from German citizenship via blood.
2. You are a Military dependent. You are here with an active duty military member. You are not registered in the German system. You also
will prob. get laughed out of the registration office when they ask what your husband does for a living, and they'll tell you you don't need
to register.
3. You have no German Work/living permits (US Govt. sponcered) And unless you can line-up a german job you won't get them.
4. Why would you want to drop US citizenship in favor of German, "For tax reasons"? You do know that you will be paying atleast 45%
of everything you make to the Govt. Govt. right? There is absolutely NO BENEFIT what so ever in "Doing is for tax reasons"...
5. Your Husband can not apply for any permits from the Germans while he is still Active duty. Once he gets out thats a different issue.
If you really, Really, Really want German citizenship (Remember its not needed to stay in Germany). You must complete the following steps.
1. Husband and you, must get off the US Govt. tit (Sorta speak) He has to get out of the military (Which it sounds like he's not going to do for at least
another 6 years). Your status in Germany will then be that of a Tourist, you will be allowed to stay in Germany for 90 days.
2. Both of you need to then apply to the German Govt. for a Living/Working permit. This will give you an additional 90 days, to find a place to live
and a job. (Est. cost of this process is 30 Eur p.p) You will also need to begin the standard/required hours of German language school..
3. Once both of you have found a job, then you must return to the Ausländeramt, present them with the intention of employment letter from your
future jobs, and HOPE that they approve your first semi-permanent Work/living permits. These will be good for 1 year. keep in mind that if its
a simple job, the Amt will claim a German can do it, and deny your permit. (Est. cost of this process is 30 Eur p.p)
4. If after 1 yr your still employed and making money, you will then need to return to the local Amt for another permit update. This time they will be
good for 2 years. (Est. cost of this process is 30 Eur p.p)
5. Apply for 2nd 2 year permit. (Est. cost of this process is 30 Eur p.p)
6. Apply for 1st 5 year permit (Est. cost of this process is 30 Eur p.p)
7. Apply for Unlimited Permit (Est. cost of this process is 60 Eur p.p)
8. Once you get your unlimited permit, you then qualify to apply for German citizenship. You go back to your local Amt
Request the needed paper work (About 5-6 pages), Submit another 4in stack of other papers they'll request, Pass a German test
(Spoken and written), pay aprox 300-500 Eur, and spend the next 6months to 1 year waiting to see if you are accepted.
I'm sure I missed some steps, but the end result is the same. Be prepaired to wait the required 7-8 years and pay the 100s'/thousands
in Processing fees and, lawyer fees (If you have problems with the Amts)..
If all goes to plan you will then have a German passport, you can then tell the US to go fly a kite.. Welcome to Germany, and the home of the 48% tax.
Now don't ya wish ya just stayed an American..

(With the cheap taxes to boot)