Here's the story so far: My boyfriend and I are both trying to work as freelance Englsh teachers in Munich. We have both received letters of intent from language schools who intend to give us work. We are both registered at our current address, and everything else is the same with us in a similar manner. We both went to the immigration office at the same time, but spoke to two different people. My boyfriend had no trouble obtaining a residency and work permit, and left with everything sorted out. The man I talked to (PM me if you think you know him) briefly glanced at my papers and told me he would call me later that day or the next day (which is by now yesterday) when my permissions were ready.
I have heard that the time it takes to get work papers varies depending on the individual you talk to. I have also heard some horror stories about people who have waited up to three months for work papers. Since my boyfriend was able to get his permit so easily, I know it is not a difficult process. I called the official who took my application on Friday (the day after submitting the application), and he made it exceedingly clear that I was to wait for him to call me, saying it would be some time next week.
My financial situation at this point is bordering on dire, but I have a job lined up for January 7th. Therefore, I need to get my work papers by then.
So my question is this: given that this guy is German and fairly overbearing, what would be the best way for me to improve my chances of getting my work permit next week? Should I keep calling this guy despite the fact that he told me not to? Would that make him more likely to stall? Should I drop by in person? Should I send him flowers? Should I just wait?
Any advice would be greatly, greatly appreciated.
-Ellen