Mother and children groups around Wiesbaden

Hello!

I am not sure what the proper ettiquette or procedure is for this but here it goes . . . I moved to Germany (Wiesbaden) in March with my daughter and husband. While the area has a great deal of Americans, I have found that most of them are military (or military affiliated) and they sort of live in their own world (which I have yet to figure out how to penetrate!) Anyway, my husband is German and my daughter is 7 months old. I do not speak German (integration classes start in September) and after 4 months, it is safe to say that I am starting to slowly lose my mind!!! Having a new baby (first time mom), giving up my career and moving to another country . . . well it has all been a bit much to get a handle on. Apparently, making friends and acquaintences in Germany is quite different from the states and I am at a loss. I need to "socially integrate" my daughter (at least that is what my mother tells me . . .) but I think I am the one in need of some social integration! I would like to find other Americans in the Wiesbaden area who have small children so that we could get together for playdates (mommy dates) or just hang. It would be nice to have the opportunity to speak with others who understand the little things that can drive one crazy when moving to another country. My husband speaks perfect English but I want to talk to someone besides him (and my mother - thank God for Vonage!)

I know that this posting may sound rather desperate and probably a bit psycho but trust me, I am neither. I just think that it is time to start making friends . . . anyone interested???

Hi! I'm afraid I can't help you with mother and baby groups as I am male and do not have children (or at least none that i know about!). But there are a small group of us that are heading out tonight for a social, just an informal couple of beers or glasses of wine and friendly banter. So, if you can get a babysitter then you and your husband are more than welcome! See the post in the Events and Meetups section for details.

There are other expats in the Wiesbaden area that are not US military, for example there are a few of us Brits and Irish that go to the Irish Pub (Michelsberg 15) on Sunday afternoons to watch English football (they have British TV there). If you have a common interest with some of the locals this is also a good way to meet people. The City of Wiesbaden Website has details of clubs in the city for all sorts of sports and hobbies.

Well I cannot help much on the children front either as I do not have any. But I do also believe that you need to integrate yourself too and meet both German Mum's and some people from home as well. German classes will also help you along they way there. Also start by getting your husband to speak little sentences to you in German to get you used to communicating in another language.

The American Women's Club of the Taunus also has a mother's section although I do not know how regular they meet but it could be a start. I guess the Taunus is not too far from Wiesbaden if you have a car.

Also could your husband help you with family members/friends from the area who have children to start off with?

Good Luck

I'm not American, I'm Canadian, I have no kids but I'm 6 months pregnant. I'm also a housewife, if you would be up for getting together that would be great. Unfortunatley I live in Frankfurt. If you want to hook up send me a PM

Tschus!

My husband and I arrived to Frankfurt from the US one month ago with our 7 month old son so your posting is right up my alley. We are here for a minimum of two years for his job. I, too, am a stay-at-home Mom. Getting together sounds great especially since our babies are the same age and this Mommy thing is still all new! Also, I am eager to learn and practice German, but am not self-motivated. Having someone else who wants to/needs to learn would be good inspiration and motivation. I sent a private note, but figured I'd post this as well in case others want to get together. We are waiting for our car to arrive so I'd need to meet on an U-Bahn line. Let me know. This week I couldn't meet until Thursday or Friday as we have company from the States already. Thanks!

Hi Hausefrau!

I´m an american Mommy with a two year old girl, and I read your cry for help. I´m not military either, but I work as an Ob/Gyn here in Wiesbaden an have alot of american patients My schedule can be pretty tight, but if you live in Wiesbaden and just wanto get together for coffee or whatever and let the kids get to know each other that would be fun!

Lemme know if you are still in need of some company!

Sheila

My kids are a bit older. G-B-B-G and 12, 10, 9, and 6. They're 50-50 German/American but speak English well and are reasonably Americanized (for having always lived over here). Anyone who has kids in that age group who might be interested in WEEKEND activities, gimme a holler. I live fairly close to Mainz/Wiesbaden.

Hi ,
I am also an American mother living in Wiesbaden. I have a almost 10 month old son and a 3(on christmas) year old son. I have been living in Germany without military/govermant affiliation since 2003. I am also married to a German. I am in need of normal adult conversation and interaction.My baby also would love some children to play with;)
I live about 3 minutes walk into the city so its a pretty central location. If anyone is interested in a meet-up please let me know.

Hi Ladies,

My name Sherrie and I have been living here in Germany for three years. At the moment we are living in Krefeld but we are being transferred to Wiesbaden in April 2008. For those of you that are new to Germany I know what you have been going through. It is a very tough transition. I also have a 2 1/2 year old daughter born in Germany. I would love to get together with anybody who is interested when we move. Also I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions for a good kindergarten?

Take care,

Sherrie