I consider myself a very lucky SA citizen in that none of my friends or family have been shot or killed. However, as a Pretoria resident (a much safer city than Johannesburg), I have had the following:
House burgled x 1
Parents' house burled x 1
In-laws' house burgled x 1
Neighbour's house burgled x 1
Theft from car x 2
Cars stolen x 3
Sister carjacked at knife point x 1
Close friends carjacked at gun point x 2
Friends armed robbery x 1
Neighbour armed robbery x 1
Neighbour murdered x 1 (different neighbour)
Almost caught in police vs robbers shootout x 1
Almost shot in citizen vs robber shootout x 1
To people living in a civilised country this may sound over the top, but every single day I walk around my property looking for signs that someone has been watching my movements (flattened grass, cigarette butts, plastic bread wrappers, cans, etc). I live on small 32 ha farm, which has 1 ha fenced and I do this when I walk the dogs outside of the fence.
Since I work from home I don't have a set travelling routine, so that's no problem, but people who commute to work every day at the same time and follow the same route are easy targets for carjackers and burglars.
Some of the things Matt9882 have said are true, but not this:
QUOTE (Matt9882 @ Jun 21 2007, 11:02 am)

but things in SA just seem more real because of the laws. For example you have to have security on your house - thus every house looks like a fortress, your allowed to carry guns so most people have them and flash them.
There is no law that states that you have to secure your house. If that was so then about 45 million people would be breaking the law right now. You are allowed to carry a handgun, but most people don't have them and certainly don't flash them. The waiting period for a firearm license is more than 2 years and the approval rate for new licenses is about 5% of all applicants.
QUOTE (Matt9882 @ Jun 21 2007, 11:02 am)

If you have no problem seeing security guards carrying Uzis at the supermarket then you will be fine. However restaurants shopping malls and stores are safe and most gardens are huge with pools etc as long as you get a decent area and good security then you should be fine.
The only time you'll see a security guard carrying a gun at a supermarket is when a cash management company comes to pick up the cash boxes. And they don't carry Uzi's! They carry either semi-auto shotguns, R5 assault rifles or (in rare cases) MP5's. Normal guards at supermarkets only carry batons, mace and handcuffs.
And restaurants are no longer safe either. The new BIG THING for robbers is for up to 15 armed thugs to run into a packed restaurant, usually just before closing time when the staff is tired and customers pissed. They rob the restaurant of its takings, plus the clientele of their cash, jewellery, watches, and car keys. While some of the robbers keep the restaurant occupants on the floor the rest systematically go through the parking areas pushing the buttons on the car remote controls and choosing a few nice, expensive rides for the getaway.
Whatever one can say about SA. It definitely isn't boring!