Dosing a teenager with a suppository - Germany

Not from this part of the world, are you?

Fuck sake! I've only read part of this thread and the fuckwittery is astounding.

i really like that word. i think i'll start to use it in day-to-day conversation.
blah blah blah the fuckwittery at work is extraordinary...

Sorry, only one to a customer.

The other day I saw a father hugging his 14-year old son! Is this acceptable or is it already slightly gay behavior?

Thinking about it, my dad still gives me hugs as well. Should I be worried?

Yep, but were you also previously aware that some people use the net because their sob-stories / scandals / lies never made it to Oprah? I like so totally wasn't aware and now I am!

She's probably friends with that bogus poster who said that he was from Isreal and was afraid that the nazis would eat him. He's probably her boyfriend that's administering the suppositories .

You mean the Jerry Springer show don't you?

The other day I saw a mother kiss her 15 year old son on the lips when she told him goodbye. Should I have reported this to Ashleyp, the public protection officer?

SO VERY VERY FUNNY HILARIOUS!!

BUT ACTUALLY

I THINK IT IS A BIT STRANGE AND I WONDER IF ALL YOU PEOPLE WHO HAVE ANSWERED OR EXPRESSED A OPINION TODAY WOULD FEEL A BIT SHY OF COMMENTING IF
YOUR FATHER HAD SHOVED A SUPPOSITORY IN YOUR BUM EVERY TIME YOU WERE A BIT UNDER THE WEATHER?

nO REALLY I think it would be demeaning for a teenager to gave to show her dad her bum and suffer the horrible treatment for a slight stomach ache don't you?

I think we should start a
Save yer arse campaign.. international respect for dveloping arses!!

Good idea,, well I have to do something when i am fired!!!

I will be the president and lavender rain can be the voice of reason chef?

Drop the caps please, it's annoying.
Did your father shove one up yours all the time when you were a kid, or what is your problem? You said hypothetical-she asked him to, didn't you? Seems to me like hypothetical-she has no hypothetical problem with it!

Uh, absolutely no way! I don't play second fiddle to no one , especially folks who make up bogus stories. Wait! I have a great idea since you tell such compelling bogus stories, may I suggest you join the republican party in the U.S. that's were the really good bogus story tellers are.

Oh here we go, politics has entered the discussion. Now let the dem-rep battle begin.

[quote name='Lavender Rain' date='Jun 11 2007, 12:22 am' post='961791']
Uh, absolutely no way! I don't play second fiddle to no one ,

Shame!

Pay attention, google FKK. Your hangups are not everyone else's. Teenagers get naked in front of everybody around here. Even in your made-up story daughter had no problem with asking father to help.

Just one comment before I log off:
Child molesting dads are real. Looking for clues where there aren't any, posting bogus stories on internet forums, being generally paranoid rather than keeping your eyes and ears open, is not doing the kids in question any favours. This kind of hysteria IMO makes it easier for the actual molesters to do what they do, because thinking people are so turned off by it (the hysteria) that their threshold of 'something is wrong here' is heightened.
Shame on you, dear topic starter, for exploiting this well meaning crowd and spreading cynisism in your wake. I know it's a lot to ask of someone who cannot even handle their cap lock, but do you ever consider the consequences of your actions?

Is that like the new Nazi ending.

As an online discussion grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving Republicans or Bush approaches one.

This is the most intelligent comment I have read all day,, why oh why did you not pop in earlier...

dimmer has a good point here.

Something along the lines of "wer einmal lügt, dem glaubt man nicht, und wenn er auch die Wahrheit spricht." (Weird to use English punctuation after a German quote.)
And while it may not be you again, it might be another new poster who has an actual problem, and people will be a lot more wary and may not believe them.

What a weird thread. I thought it was bizarre anyone was brushing off the fact a grown man was sticking his fingers anywhere near a teenage girls ass - I can't see how it's the same as kissing/hugging within a family & am glad in this case it's only made up.
I also didn't understand why people got hung up on whether it was sexual or not, I didn't see sexuality mentioned as a concern at the start and thought it obvious that this situation would be inappropriate no matter what the motives were.

So, that was interesting, although I don't agree with the thread-starters way of finding out what people would say, I think the questions raised could have just been honestly asked hypothetically. No need for make believe to get opinions on this site.

Anyway, I was so surprised at the replies I asked someone else whether they thought it odd that so many posters were leaning towards the families right to stick their hands up each others bums.
I was told not to believe every story I read on TT. but still didn't get an answer about whether the replies were odd or not. Anyone else surprised there was actually much debate? Do people really think this situation could be considered perfectly acceptable?

Marshbot, my opinion on the matter is exactly what I said in my posts, I would not want it personally, nor would I want it for my child at that age, but some other families might find it acceptable and appropriate and that is their right.

Lowest common denominator: daughter asked Papa to do it and girlfriend of Papa has a problem with it.

No Dimmer

My original question was true and I wanted to know what people felt about fathers administering suppositories to teenage girls. I tried subtly to point out the risks and concerns as i thought the feedback would be informative for both myself and to illustrate potential dangers... to fathers, relationships and to see how misunderstandings arise and the effect and consquences of public opinion.

What I got was;

The girl asked her father to insert it ( so therefore it was ok) We only have the fathers word this is the case but no= one thought to question it? I did straight away.

2 people highlighted that if i thought illeagl acts were going on I should go to police.

Look back at comments and most people seem to be demonising me for daring to challenge this action and behaviour and I am accuse of being jealous of the daughter, having sexual problems, being intimidated by the closeness of the father /daughter relationship, having a dysfunctional relationship, my father must have interfered with me as a child and many more suppositions due to that I posed a question regarding fatherhood and daughter boundaries and practices tha i was uncomfortable with.
I am sure I do have multiply problems but they are not related to any of the above accusations...

my question was genuine and for good intentions,,,, some of the replies were aimed to make me feel like I have no right to question something that i find alien which was why i was on the site looking for
insight in the first place.

No, you only had the father's word. We only had yours. I think most people here assume that if you say "the daughter asked for help" you actually verified that before posting, i.e. she actually did ask him for help. If you were not sure about it, I would expect you to have said that somewhere.

And the reason why people assumed you had deeper-lying issues were that you not only asked him about it, but that you said y'all esentially broke up afterwards (you haven't spoken).

[quote name='Marshbot' date='Jun 11 2007, 12:47 am' post='961800']
What a weird thread. I thought it was bizarre anyone was brushing off the fact a grown man was sticking his fingers anywhere near a teenage girls ass - I can't see how it's the same as kissing/hugging within a family & am glad in this case it's only made up.
I also didn't understand why people got hung up on whether it was sexual or not, I didn't see sexuality mentioned as a concern at the start and thought it obvious that this situation would be inappropriate no matter what the motives were.

-Hi Marshbot
thank you
I was not accusing my ex partner of sexual crimes as you have identified and I want to say if a teenage girl supposedly asks a adult man to inset a suppositoy does No one agree that that man should say something like you are abit too old now and should try it tourself at this age?

No one seems to think this would be correct?

I am amazed at these people replies.

why does everything need to be questioned, checked, and reexamined? is society getting to the point where the littlest action must be anaylzed to make sure it isn't harmful? isn't it okay to go with the theory that perhpas people don't have bad intentions?

note- i'm not saying everyone is innocent and all things are good/okay, i'm just asking if people must off the bat assume something is askew.

No. everybody is not innocent and surely it is better to question, check. examine and re examine to acertain that people do have the best intentions?
If you have nothing to hide then being scrutinised is only an irritation and if it means we all have to look at behaviours that make us uncomfortable or are so diiferent they rise questions then so waht,, it may be critical in preventing harm.
Also it is worth considering that some young girls can be damaged and not realise their behaviour is unhealthy and it is sadly necessary to consider this too.

I think if we cannot understand something and have troubles dealing with something that feels problematic then no matter how weird it seems opening the issue to general discussion can only be healthy and positive.

What a sad world we live in where people are guilty until proven innocent.

You wrote the story, you interjected your own opinions into the story, you misrepresented facts or left some out and your English and typing skills are awful. We saw through your BS and gave you the correct opinions. There was nothing wrong with father assisting daughter in the application of a medicine,"she asked him to do it as she could not herself", (you know that a lot of people have a problem with giving themselves insulin shots). The fact that we didn't see the conspiracy theories that you wanted us to would mean that we didn't have the same irrational thoughts as you. Your further posts and prudish obsession with your boyfriend's daughter's butt suggests that you have the problem and even your posts since suggesting you made it up confirm that fact.

I would be more worried about the parent who thinks three meals a day and regular bedtimes is bad and then goes on to further complain about bf spoiling his kids and not her.


Whether the story be true or not, Tomasino may still be right.

You are damaged and need to be fired. Anyone who thinks like that should never be put in a position of authority where they can do damage to innocent people.

FFS!!!

He's a nurse, of course he's accustomed to doing these things!!! Why do you find it so incredibly offensive that a nurse would shove a suppository up someone's bum.

I would suggest that you drop this guy and crawl back to whatever hole you came out of. Anyone who is so paranoid about public nudity, parental assistance with suppositories and regular meals really needs some help.

Who cares if a child sleeps in the same room with its parents? It's not like it happens 365 days a year. Your sense of child abuse is wildly misguided. Let's hope you don't have the opportunity to mess up any kids brains more than you already have.

@AshleyP, whatever about the dad discussing the "arse" issue with you beforehand, I presume you have discussed with them all the fact that they are being discussed in a public forum with potentially thousands of viewers... I expect they would be more shocked than you were...

If you haven't then I fail to follow your argument.

Awesome.

last time i got a prescription for suppositories i took them back to the doctor and told him that for all the good they did me, i could've shoved 'em up my ass

Shockingly I agree with eurovol. You're mental.

Typical. Children always spoil a vacation. NEVER EVER take children anywhere if you plan on having a nice time.
Administering medicine is best left to the family VET as far as children are concerned . These professionals are used to dealing with wild animals.

Marshbot, I think it's acceptable as well. Parents have to do all sorts of gross things for their kids, some of it involving bums and other intimate parts and there will come a time when the children will have to do gross such as insert catherters for their parents, it just goes with the territory.

On top of it all the guy is a nurse so he's used to doing this kind of thing and being completely impartial about it.