Lesbian-friendly bars and clubs

Newish in town. I have trolled the TT boards for recommendations for lesbian bars/clubs but the impression I get is many places mentioned are for a younger crowd. I'm looking for some place with a relaxed atmosphere for folk more in the 30-40 year old bracket where I can catch a beer, a chat and maybe dance a little. Any suggestions? Thx. BTW my German is not very good yet, so preference would be for chat in English, but willing to go with the broken-German-wave-hands-in-the-air-draw-pictures-on-a-napkin approach to communication as well :-)

I read the topic as lebanese-family bars, but anyway... most bars in the Glockenbachviertel fit your reqs pretty well - just take a stroll around there and check them out.

Café Glück
Bei Carla
Inge's Karrotte.

No dancing, for that you want to go for a club night, pick up the booklet GayTimer for parties
or the re-openend legend Old Mrs Hendersen with the fabulouly glam bouncer Hanelore.

A friend of mine went to:

http://www.amazonasmuc.de/

I haven't there myself, since that really isnt my kind of crowd - but she liked it.

Check www.frauentermine.de for various club nights and info.
I recommend Amazonas, the next one is this Wednesday (before the bank holiday), so you may want to go and see if you like it.
If you are looking for an 'older crowd', in the 30-40 yr old bracket then you may like www.sunny-party.de, it is definitely not my thing but seems to be popular.