arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 1:25 pm
The topics running these days is all about offending some section or the other.
Grinner Offended by all
Smokers offending and being offended
Turks, Germans, Ami's all feel they are unjustly adjudged by society
Gays & Lesbian rights are not respected (atually just gay rights me thinks!)
Pikeys being burnt
Women being offended for being looked upon as sex objects, or being abused
No one thinks about Africa
you get the drift! So what is it that one thing closest to your heart that offends you and wants to make you come out and defend what you think is right.
Me, I hate it when people tell me about India taking away jobs from western nations, about how we should not feel good as we are looked upon the world as just cheap labor. Really gets under me skin!! I could defend me position till I friggin die.
I think this thread might get it out of the way as to what is really Un-PC
Tom17
Mar 22 2007, 1:29 pm
I get most upset by blatant deliberate cruelty to animals.
Offensive things to people/nations/etc I can handle, deal with it. People can choose to ignore and look the other way. When people f*ck with animals there is nothing they can do about it.
DrivinWest
Mar 22 2007, 1:31 pm
Turkish-American man-turned-woman transgendered pikey homosexual smoker is offended by being seen as a sex object and is now working in the Dell tech support telecenter in Mumbai.
Got it.
1) Conspiracy theorists. You should be culled, or at least sterilized (and if you already have kids they should be placed in foster homes for deprogramming).
2) Religious fanatics, particularly when they try to make their religion law.
3) Anti-immigration assholes like Buchanan and Le Pen.
Eleanor Rigby
Mar 22 2007, 1:32 pm
1. Misogynists
2. Homophobes
3. Racists
In that order.
Carm
Mar 22 2007, 1:32 pm
what she said!
and people that are not willing to see two sides to a story!
arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 1:34 pm
QUOTE (DrivinWest @ Mar 22 2007, 1:31 pm)

Turkish-American man-turned-woman transgendered pikey homosexual smoker is offended by being seen as a sex object.
Word!
serisoulsy, TT has such an undercurrent these days of suffering and moaning in one form or the other, I thought I should at least have an idea of what people from different cultures find worth discussing and solving.
Wee Mun
Mar 22 2007, 1:35 pm
Nothing on Toytown offends me...
What pisses me off IRL would be stupidity, ignorance, intolerance etc etc...
Kiddy fiddlers would have to be my biggest hate though...
stubbs
Mar 22 2007, 1:36 pm
It offends me when people use homophobic terms whilst claiming not to be homophobic and refusing to admit that they (the words) promote hate.
i.e. "that's so gay" as oposed to "that's so stupid".
There's not so much of it on this board, but it offends me none the less.
Topic split: Definitions of the word "gay"
topcat 1
Mar 22 2007, 1:37 pm
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Mar 22 2007, 1:32 pm)

1. Misogynists
2. Homophobes
3. Racists
In that order.
I love MHRs. Someone has to take their side. Very unPC if everyone hated them.
Aelfwynn
Mar 22 2007, 1:37 pm
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Mar 22 2007, 1:32 pm)

1. Misogynists
2. Homophobes
3. Racists
In that order.
That's my top list, too.
sarabyrd
Mar 22 2007, 1:38 pm
Lack of respect, no matter what for.
DrivinWest
Mar 22 2007, 1:39 pm
QUOTE (sarabyrd @ Mar 22 2007, 1:38 pm)

Lack of respect, no matter what for.
Even when respect isn't warranted?
Exile
Mar 22 2007, 1:39 pm
I hate it when some of the best known TT roles are take over by a different actor and everybody carries on as if nothing happened. Do the moderators really think we are not going to notice.
DC77
Mar 22 2007, 1:40 pm
He who offends you have control over you.
arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 1:43 pm
surprise that ER's list is so comprehensive!! I thought there would be a lot of specific cultural perspectives. What about the belligerent anti-smokers.
Never thought Homophobes would top the list either or that people here had so much respect for gays and lesbians that they would have an inherent hatred towards homophobes, unusual!
Renia
Mar 22 2007, 1:45 pm
QUOTE (Exile @ Mar 22 2007, 1:39 pm)

I hate it when some of the best known TT roles are take over by a different actor and everybody carries on as if nothing happened. Do the moderators really think we are not going to notice.
Huh?
Does this mean if you go on holiday, you can get a stand-in?
arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 1:48 pm
QUOTE (DrivinWest @ Mar 22 2007, 1:31 pm)

3) Anti-immigration assholes like Buchanan and Le Pen.
thats the first time I heard an Ami say that! seriously!
DrivinWest
Mar 22 2007, 1:49 pm
I like my strawberries to cost less than $50 a carton, thanks!
arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 1:51 pm
well pretty simple list here.
*message for Grinner*
Keep out of these topics and you will not be modded
Ruthie
Mar 22 2007, 2:01 pm
Nothing on TT bothers me -- I either put in my two cents or don't bother reading.
I agree with the person who hates child molesters (though I'm not aware of having run into any on TT). Animals are not my species, adults are supposed to be able to take care of themselves -- but kids getting abused, especially by those responsible for making sure they are safe -- that really makes me angry. That's why I never went into law -- I can't be impartial, I'd always believe the kids, because no one else seems to.
In real life, these are my pet peeves:
People at the grocery store always moving up so close behind you that their cart touches your thighs
People who think public toilets are filthy and therefore squat instead of sit, making the toilet filthy
BadDoggie
Mar 22 2007, 2:01 pm
QUOTE (arshoo @ Mar 22 2007, 1:25 pm)

Me, I hate it when people tell me about India taking away jobs from western nations, about how we should not feel good as we are looked upon the world as just cheap labor. Really gets under me skin!! I could defend me position till I friggin die.
We'll see how long you keep singing that song as the
Philippines and China do
to India what India has done to the US. When you're basing your economy on undercutting someone else's, you need to make damned sure no one else can undercut
you.
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Mar 22 2007, 1:32 pm)

1. Misogynists
2. Homophobes
3. Racists
In that order.
Sexist. Why is misogyny at the top of that list and how come misandry doesn't appear? It seems that hating men is perfectly acceptable. A lot of hardcore, butch lesbians constantly promote their misandronic views to no outcry.
Worst thing in the world are the knowingly ignorant and the hypocrites, not necessarily in that order.
woof.
WheresTheRock?
Mar 22 2007, 2:02 pm
I have a definite problem with religious fanatics who try to push their morals onto me. The refusal to write/fill a prescription or the censoring of books/TV shows and movies. I should be able to decide such things for myself. It makes me see red!
JerseyBoy
Mar 22 2007, 2:21 pm
Religious intolerance in any way, shape or form gets me angry the most!!
ESPECIALLY the religious right in the States.
Johnny English
Mar 22 2007, 2:35 pm
People that whinge about their lives, but are too blinkered to see the fantastic wealth of opportunity before them.
For instance, if you are from a Western country, with half-decent education, passport, and 2 arms and 2 legs then the world is your oyster. You have a staggeringly huge wealth of choices not afforded to perhaps 80% of the world's population.
Don't bitch about your job - just resign.
Don't bitch about the country you live in - just move.
Don't bitch about your partner - split up.
It's the inability of people to take responsibility for their own lives that gets most on my tits.
Eleanor Rigby
Mar 22 2007, 2:38 pm
QUOTE (BadDoggie @ Mar 22 2007, 2:01 pm)

Sexist. Why is misogyny at the top of that list and how come misandry doesn't appear? It seems that hating men is perfectly acceptable. A lot of hardcore, butch lesbians constantly promote their misandronic views to no outcry.
I made
my list in the order of how things effect me and that I have personal experience with.
I am not a man, or a misanderor nor have any experience with any such a person. I can not be offended by that which I do not understand.
I think you should know me well enough by now that I am far from sexist, in fact I get shit all the time for being so far from anythingist that my pcness gets unbearable.
arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 2:38 pm
QUOTE (BadDoggie @ Mar 22 2007, 2:01 pm)

We'll see how long you keep singing that song as the
Philippines and China do
to India what India
BD, I dont give a damn about the future or whether India will be overtaken by this country and that. I think credit should be given where due, the west does propose capitalism and when it works you cant blame the people who take advantage!!
We may be cheap labor when you look at the conversion rate, but when you look at purchasing power, we are not at all cheap! I mean when I started out with a salary of 400 yoyos/month, I had a 1250 sq mtr bunglaow, a cook, a gardener, a maid and a guard! Plus I could party when I wanted without worrying about money...do you think I was cheap labor?! Not our fault we can enjoy a lot more on a lot less!!
Again, dont confuse this by the point you are trying to make - I
dont care if India is overtaken by anyone else, its capitalism. my point is that we are good at work too and that we are certainly not cheap by our own country's standards and enjoy the same lifestyle you guys do here in your country or better!
sarabyrd
Mar 22 2007, 2:43 pm
QUOTE (sarabyrd @ Mar 22 2007, 1:38 pm)

Lack of respect, no matter what for.
QUOTE (DrivinWest @ Mar 22 2007, 1:39 pm)

Even when respect isn't warranted?
I thought of elaborating but decided against it. Anyway, lack of respect a priori without seeing what is behind a person, lack of respect for creatures at our mercies, lack of respect for nature.
QUOTE (first-time-caller @ Mar 22 2007, 2:28 pm)

Gay does not mean jolly anymore, to say otherwise is to stretch much too far.
So, FTC, you sing, "Don we now our jolly apparel"? I have no qualms saying that we were a gay group at dinner last Thursday, at least gay enough for the Germans around to ask us to tone down. And the members of the group don't think I am labeling their sexuality.
The coloured plastic lids of Smartie tubes with a letter embossed on the underside. These things stalk me in the dark of a moonless night.
Freiheit
Mar 22 2007, 3:13 pm
People who waste too much breath or my time with stupid shite like pretty much all the above whining. People just have way too much time on their hands to get 'offended' over stuff that really doesn't matter.
Live your life and let others do the same. Help others and stand up for those who can't stand up for themselves.
The word offend offends me because it's just such a stupid waste of time, space and brain cells. And yeah, like everyone else, I'm a hypocrite too.
planetmoni
Mar 22 2007, 3:15 pm
whingers, whingers, whingers, did i mention whingers? whingers, whingers...
gideon
Mar 22 2007, 3:17 pm
QUOTE (arshoo @ Mar 22 2007, 2:38 pm)

Again, dont confuse this by the point you are trying to make - I dont care if India is overtaken by anyone else, its capitalism.
What!!! you lot spent ages spinning your own cloth, making your own salt, following a little skinny man in a bed sheet and buggering up a perfectly good function Raj and Empire, and now 60 years later you say you don't care who owns the country. Tiffin will never be the same!
Marshbot
Mar 22 2007, 3:21 pm
I get offended by people who get offended at everything.
I think all internet forums are good for teaching people they don't have to be so precious. There's offensive things in this world, indeed, but there's also a bunch of people running around who are living in uptight little bubbles that you're not allowed to poke at. Their look-at-me-I'm-so-offended tantrums obscure 'actual' things that deserve worry or concern.
By 'actual' I mean real life issues and not whether someone used a word inappropriately or that you would appreciate so and so not using that word again because your sisters friend once had a terrible experience with bla bla and it was very sad for the family and saying bla bla is just disrespectful to people who might have bla bla and no one would say that where you come from etc. yawn.
People need to laugh at themselves more. Or at least try smoking a joint and watch the clouds for a while.
arshoo
Mar 22 2007, 3:23 pm
QUOTE (gideon @ Mar 22 2007, 3:17 pm)

buggering up a perfectly good function Raj
now you know why
I love a perfectly good function Raj!
MajorBummer
Mar 22 2007, 5:17 pm
There are too many threads on TT discussing Marmite. When I go to Cooking, one of the first things I see is Marmite-flavoured Guinness for instance. I actually wanted to post some recipes, but that thread is so offensive that I don't want to hang around too long in the cooking section anymore.
Otherwise I agree most with Sarabyrd: lack of respect bothers me most. Whether it's respect for animals, nature, men or women, certain nations, even people you don't particularly like or agree with.
don_riina
Mar 22 2007, 5:24 pm
QUOTE (MajorBummer @ Mar 22 2007, 5:17 pm)

There are too many threads on TT discussing Marmite
You can't see me or hear me MB, but I am currently
totally muttering loads of complimentary words in italian, and nodding my head at you in an appreciative, knowing way. Rispetto.
MajorBummer
Mar 22 2007, 5:41 pm
Don Riina, you really are a genius. Btw, do you know the books by Anthony Bourdain?
don_riina
Mar 22 2007, 5:45 pm
I've read bits of Kitchen Confidential, and seen his telly series. Seems like an alright bloke. Likes eating novelty non-descript meat from weird roadside grills. Gotta love that shit.
euromummy
Mar 22 2007, 11:17 pm
I hate the politicians who simply don`t care about anything except power - they generally have really big brains, but absolutely tiny little souls.
They are completely indifferent to the needs of the people- they could spend time making the world a better place
and they would be much happier than they are now. Despite their superior education and postion in life, however, they are too primitive and unevolved
to know what is important in life.
Dafydd
Mar 22 2007, 11:31 pm
Celts
Catholics
Cretins
Croatians
Cryptanalysts
Canadians
Coons
Cockneys
Caucasians
Camp-ers
Cymraegians
Costermongers
Clever dicks
Cyclists
And people who eat food.
Bastards all.
bluedave
Mar 22 2007, 11:47 pm
Did you miss
Cocks out on that list deliberately?
Dafydd
Mar 22 2007, 11:49 pm
Oh, and Cocks.
Carm
Mar 23 2007, 8:13 am
QUOTE (Dafydd @ Mar 22 2007, 11:31 pm)

Canadians
well, that is fine, we don't like you either!
Ruthie
Mar 23 2007, 10:12 am
Well, Gideon, I guess it's more than razzing (about not being Mormon) -- you just get this stare of incomprehension and "But...you looked so nice".
And the --"well, if you're not Mormon, what's stopping you from going out and killing people and stealing all the time? So I guess you must sleep with a different guy every day and, umm, are you alcoholic?"
sarabyrd
Mar 23 2007, 10:15 am
QUOTE (Ruthie @ Mar 23 2007, 10:12 am)

So I guess you must sleep with a different guy every day ...
What??? You get that from a
Morman???
Jebus and a half, I always knew they were not on the same planet as the rest of us.
Ruthie
Mar 23 2007, 11:09 am
In the defense of Mormons -- they are the majority in Utah, and many have never left the State. Like many Americans, they are taught that their way is the best way, and that the rest of the world (and religions) are really sad and pathetic and decrepit...
Thing that always bothered me was the hypocrisy. I knew some Mormons who (gasp) drank coffee -- and some who smoked, had sex before marriage, drank...but they felt it was wrong and were quick to point the finger at others. I guess in their short-sightedness they just assumed that someone who wasn't living under their strict moral code would go wild. Thing is, when you're not being so restricted, it's not so much fun to break those restrictions. Kind of like how drinking alcohol is so much more exciting when you're under 21.
Utah, by the way, has a very high rate of sex crimes.
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