I need some female company - Munich

I think Otis Lee Crenshaw has a tune or two thematically concerned with this threads shenanigans.


And that is how shenanigans is spelt right?

well, looking at your profile, u are not really in peace with men, arent u?

I love men actually, but gave up on finding Mr. Right, and am just enjoying the company and the evenings out.

Do share . . . .

I don't kiss and tell BD! You should know that!

I also think men are great , would miss them very much if they were to all die out suddenly. I also like women though. That's why it saddens me to read some of the comments which have already been made on this forum.

Because there more than enough women around who want a fuck buddy. Why pay for it when you can get it for free? And why is it crap? Are you that much of a prude?

Yes, I did write that. And I agree with you, taken as a gross generalisation it is belittling. But it's frightening how many women are really like that. I've seen enough arseholes dragging women through the mud and the women coming back for more. I don't actually see what's wrong with Grinner's attitude. It's you that's taken it as disrespectful. Why is it disrespectful to tell a woman you just want to fuck her? No, it's not very tactful, but it leaves out the bullshit and at least the woman can think he finds her physically attractive. But no, you have to see the negative in it because you're on this feminism crusade. Make issues where they don't exist. Fuck buddy is so passe in anycase these days you should really get with it. Stop being so "verklemmt".

Grinner me ol' son, you need to learn how to cook, dude. They cannot resist.

Salade tiede de langoustines au beurre de truffes

Say it like a mantra my friend, this legendary delicate composition of what I consider to be the king of seafood, baby salad leaves, and a truffle, butter and vermouth dressing is the closest thing that taste buds can get to multiple orgasms. With the correct execution, it's almost a fucking religious experience dude.

Ulysses
It wasn't the fact that Grinner wrote that he is looking for a fuck buddy which came across as misogynistic. It was the general underlying tone of the thread as a whole. Perhaps you have to be female to pick that up though. It seems that many women did.

I have got to know many men as well who are treated like scum by their women for years on end and fail to see the reality with their own eyes. Being a fool in matters of the heart does not apply to one sex only. From what you have already told me in private about women you have got to know, I can understand it if you believe that this must apply to many women. I however didn't really see why you wrote that this should therefore apply to all women, but now you did explain. Thanks for that.

Don Riina really is a genius. Seriously, this is an excellent idea. No woman can resist a good cook. Grinner, go take cooking classes. You will most likely meet women there AND learn to cook in the deal.

How do you know, have you did a women who need fuck buddy survey or are you speaking about yourself. Or maybe you have some personal friends who are looking for fuck buddies so why don't you introduce them to Grinner. I'd have more respect for him if he would pay for it, instead of offering pizza and beer. It's not about me being a prude. This is about me being offended with the attitudes of men like you and Grinner who objectify women and think this is perfectly ok. Get real!!!

Yes, I agree about it going both ways.

I will still argue though that you're looking for the underlying tone. If you look hard enough, you'll find it. And just carry on confirming your negative image of men. Start looking for the positive. He was at least being honest. Judging by your reactions, that's not what you want though. Better that he lies, gets you in the sack and then buggers off.

This thread has made me hungry again. Incredible. I'm off now. To the kitchen. Ta-taa.

Nope, not into fuck relationships myself. But they're very common in Europe. First came across it in Holland. And yes, there are women out there who just want sex for the fun of it, no strings attached. Just go down to the Greek islands in summer or Austrian ski resorts. It's not a big extrapolation to fuck relationships. I suggest you start opening up your eyes and realise that other women want different things to you and it's those that Grinner was addressing, not you.

Ya, know, I think if I were to look for a fuck-buddy, he would look more like this:

and less like this:

I might actually be able to overlook number 1's lack of warmth, intelligence and ability to commit...