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East German women are only interested in money

How to deal with gold-digging Ossi chicks
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malikos
Met a girl from East Germany, all she talks about is money and now she wants to borrow a couple of grand. It seems that most women here are only interested in the size of your wallet, is there any advice on dealing with this.
bluedave
ermmm use that little word, NO.
sarabyrd
How many other East German women have you met? If she is the only one you are correct in assuming that 100% of them want your money.
sea-king
Bang her a couple of times then tell her to get the hell out of your life. East German woman are nothing but money grubbing, schreeching tarts.
Jenny L
Just be direct. Germans are used to that. Say "I don't lend money to anyone besides family. I find it puts a strain on friendships." Discussion over.
Timmeh
Give her the two grand. It's time you started saying yes more. Become the Yes-Man
Jenny L
You could tell her she's being "unverschämt". I love that word. Or you could give her the money, then pimp her out to get your 2 grand back PLUS a lot more.
eurovol
So your wallet is not very big is it and you didn't get any. Better luck next time.
malikos
I have met a few East German women. I do sort of like her but i get the feeling she is only interested in cash.
A lot of women here seem to be.
Timmeh
It's an innate trait of the entire female population. I'm surprised this has only just dawned on you.
bluedave
Very controversial Timmeh wink.gif

and brave. unsure.gif
sarabyrd
@ Timmeh - You are so totally right! I am a woman and I want money.

And I am willing and able to work for it just like you guys.
malikos
Should i just lead her on as long as i can, or should i end it now.

She also has a kid, so i sort of feel a bit sorry for her, single Mum and all.
Jenny L
What? blink.gif You're not doing her any favors by pitying her. And you're not doing her kid any favors by being mommy's boyfriend for a few weeks and then leaving. There are lots of people without money in the East. There are lots of single mommies in the East. There are also agencies that deal with these cases. She's not going to starve to death if you don't lend her the money. If you want to give her the money, then do so. If you don't want to give her the cash, then don't. But don't mess her about.
malikos
Jenny L, are you single, all that aggression is really turning me on. wink.gif
Jenny L
huh.gif Well... that wasn't exactly the response I was expecting from you. Anyhoo, sorry, Charly, I'm not single. Happy hunting though. wink.gif
malikos
But seriously, i like this girl and would like to get to know her better, but i don´t think she is interested in me, but as soon as i lend her the money
she will dissapear.

Should i just not reply to her sms and hopefully the problem will go away.
Keydeck
It's simple, as others have said, tell her that you don't want to lend her the money. If she then fucks off then you'll know that she only wanted the cash. If she sticks around then you're golden.

I've been stung in the past for lots of cash that I lent out in good faith. You are making a mistake if you hand it over. Sure, she might be genuine and pay you back, but it's not worth the agro. If you suspect that she's only interested in you for the money then don't take the chance.
Jenny L
I wouldn't lend it to her. If she likes you, she'll remain in contact regardless of whether you give her money or not. If she's not interested, she'll be gone the minute you say you're not giving her cash. Have some respect for yourself as well-- don't let her walk all over you.

Edit: Yeah, what Keydeck said.
sea-king
An opinion is not an insult, and Ossis are not worth the effort. So, Pooh,pooh to you.
Carm
QUOTE (Timmeh @ Feb 18 2007, 12:18 pm) *
It's an innate trait of the entire female population. I'm surprised this has only just dawned on you.

Oh, now I know why my parents brought me up to go to Uni, I thought it was to get my Mrs. instead of a real job after grad. laugh.gif
Tomasino
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 1:43 pm) *
Well... that wasn't exactly the response I was expecting from you. Anyhoo, sorry, Charly, I'm not single. Happy hunting though.

Oh my gawd, you're still hanging on?

Jenny, please. Just stop.

What part of "it's over" is so hard to understand?

Can you just give it a rest and move on? Please?

(No but really, it"ll never work. And your mom doesn't even like me. I think that's important too.)
Jenny L
blink.gif You mean, I AM single? Are you dumping me on a public forum?? unsure.gif
HEM
QUOTE (malikos @ Feb 18 2007, 12:24 pm) *
Should i just lead her on as long as i can, or should i end it now.

She also has a kid, so i sort of feel a bit sorry for her, single Mum and all.

I remember reading a piece of advice many years ago (from a female writer)

DO YOU WANT A LOVER OR A SOCIAL PROBLEM?
Jenny L
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 12:32 pm) *
What? You're not doing her any favors by pitying her. And you're not doing her kid any favors by being mommy's boyfriend for a few weeks and then leaving. There are lots of people without money in the East. There are lots of single mommies in the East. There are also agencies that deal with these cases. She's not going to starve to death if you don't lend her the money. If you want to give her the money, then do so. If you don't want to give her the cash, then don't. But don't mess her about.

mad.gif Nice editing job. Now my post sounds totally ridiculous. To mess somebody about doesn't have nearly the same intensity as "fucking somebody about". dry.gif
the vicar
QUOTE (sea-king @ Feb 18 2007, 12:12 pm) *
East German woman

Are you sure she's not just after money for sevices supplied? A simple case of cultural misunderstanding. I believe "Nutte" is the local lingo.
DB1969
How old are you? If you can not think clerly in this situation...then give her the money biggrin.gif
clementine
women do like money. Some rely on exchanging flirtation for it, but most of us seek employment and earn it. smile.gif

A recent trend amoung my female peers is that they tend to outearn their male partners and often end up financially supporting them.
Lifeisabuffet
I am a woman and I like my own money. If you think she is a golddigger, then don't lend her money. If she stays she loves you, if she leaves she loves your money.
Uncle Nick
QUOTE (clementine @ Feb 18 2007, 4:19 pm) *
A recent trend amoung my female peers is that they tend to outearn their male partners and often end up financially supporting them.

Can you introduce me to one of them, especially if they're looking for a new partner! laugh.gif
Dafydd
They want cash; you want gash. Sounds like a mutually beneficial exchange relationship to me. Go for it dude - it's only 2K.
Jenny L
QUOTE (Dafydd @ Feb 18 2007, 8:34 pm) *
They want cash; you want gash.

That's one of the classiest things I think I've ever heard. ph34r.gif
Kay
QUOTE (Dafydd @ Feb 18 2007, 8:34 pm) *
cash; you want gash. (...) Go for it dude

Dash! wink.gif
Juan Kusov
money for cunnae
Dafydd
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 8:55 pm) *
That's one of the classiest things I think I've ever heard.

My parents are so proud... smile.gif

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Grinner
2 ways to öose a friend..

1..Abuse their generosity

2.. lend them money.
perdido
I like Egerman girls they are hot.
Verwirrt
strange, about 90% of the women who are from the former east i know, all are in top level, highly responsible positions and earn very well. They are much more down to earth, less superficial than their western counterparts. perhaps i have not hung out in the Prollo dorfs enough...then again, you are who you associate with.
Freiheit
QUOTE (Juan Kusov @ Feb 18 2007, 9:02 pm) *
money for cunnae

A buck for a *uck.
Verwirrt
hey, that is honest enough...he he he he
Hutcho
QUOTE (Verwirrt @ Feb 19 2007, 3:12 pm) *
strange, about 90% of the women who are from the former east i know, all are in top level, highly responsible positions and earn very well. They are much more down to earth, less superficial than their western counterparts.

But come on man! By his own admission, malikos has "met a few East German women". A few is more than 2, hell it could be over 10! How could he be wrong? The sample group is huge! Its quite clear that all East German women are money grabbers.

There are posts like this constantly from people that probably haven't been around much, and the way they like to cope is to make generalisations. Seeing as we're in Germany, it normally happens about Germans but it is by no means confined just to them.
malikos
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 1:15 pm) *
You mean, I AM single? Are you dumping me on a public forum??

So Jenny if you are single do you want to hook up wink.gif
perdido
Back off dude. I own the rights to jennylfanclub.com
Jenny L
'Tis true, I'm afraid. I'm saving myself for perdido. wub.gif
perdido
QUOTE (clementine @ Feb 18 2007, 4:19 pm) *
A recent trend amoung my female peers is that they tend to outearn their male partners and often end up financially supporting them.

Really? Are any cute? I mean...
Lassie
not sure that is a good thing mate - you don't want to be a sponger...

And be sure I'm not saying there's anything wrong with hot rich girls!
perdido
Agreed but I have seen some hot east german girls as of late.
Lassie
where? wink.gif
perdido
cant remember had the beer goggles on.
Her Majesty
Come on give her the friggin money you tight a*s, I cannot believe it, what's wrong with you guys? Make her happy for farks sake, hahaha hehehehe.

Are all the English dudes so paranoid? I mean I am a German living in London and I think the English dudes are by far more generouse than the Geman ones.
Normally you can be lucky if a German dude buys you a coffee and glass of water when going out.
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