malikos
Feb 18 2007, 12:08 pm
Met a girl from East Germany, all she talks about is money and now she wants to borrow a couple of grand. It seems that most women here are only interested in the size of your wallet, is there any advice on dealing with this.
bluedave
Feb 18 2007, 12:09 pm
ermmm use that little word, NO.
sarabyrd
Feb 18 2007, 12:10 pm
How many other East German women have you met? If she is the only one you are correct in assuming that 100% of them want your money.
sea-king
Feb 18 2007, 12:12 pm
Bang her a couple of times then tell her to get the hell out of your life. East German woman are nothing but money grubbing, schreeching tarts.
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 12:12 pm
Just be direct. Germans are used to that. Say "I don't lend money to anyone besides family. I find it puts a strain on friendships." Discussion over.
Timmeh
Feb 18 2007, 12:12 pm
Give her the two grand. It's time you started saying yes more. Become the Yes-Man
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 12:14 pm
You could tell her she's being "unverschämt". I love that word. Or you could give her the money, then pimp her out to get your 2 grand back PLUS a lot more.
eurovol
Feb 18 2007, 12:16 pm
So your wallet is not very big is it and you didn't get any. Better luck next time.
malikos
Feb 18 2007, 12:17 pm
I have met a few East German women. I do sort of like her but i get the feeling she is only interested in cash.
A lot of women here seem to be.
Timmeh
Feb 18 2007, 12:18 pm
It's an innate trait of the entire female population. I'm surprised this has only just dawned on you.
bluedave
Feb 18 2007, 12:21 pm
Very controversial Timmeh
and brave.
sarabyrd
Feb 18 2007, 12:24 pm
@ Timmeh - You are so totally right! I am a woman and I want money.
And I am willing and able to work for it just like you guys.
malikos
Feb 18 2007, 12:24 pm
Should i just lead her on as long as i can, or should i end it now.
She also has a kid, so i sort of feel a bit sorry for her, single Mum and all.
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 12:32 pm
What?

You're not doing her any favors by pitying her. And you're not doing her kid any favors by being mommy's boyfriend for a few weeks and then leaving. There are lots of people without money in the East. There are lots of single mommies in the East. There are also agencies that deal with these cases. She's not going to starve to death if you don't lend her the money. If you want to give her the money, then do so. If you don't want to give her the cash, then don't. But don't mess her about.
malikos
Feb 18 2007, 12:41 pm
Jenny L, are you single, all that aggression is really turning me on.
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 12:43 pm

Well... that wasn't exactly the response I was expecting from you. Anyhoo, sorry, Charly, I'm not single. Happy hunting though.
malikos
Feb 18 2007, 12:47 pm
But seriously, i like this girl and would like to get to know her better, but i don´t think she is interested in me, but as soon as i lend her the money
she will dissapear.
Should i just not reply to her sms and hopefully the problem will go away.
Keydeck
Feb 18 2007, 12:48 pm
It's simple, as others have said, tell her that you don't want to lend her the money. If she then fucks off then you'll know that she only wanted the cash. If she sticks around then you're golden.
I've been stung in the past for lots of cash that I lent out in good faith. You are making a mistake if you hand it over. Sure, she might be genuine and pay you back, but it's not worth the agro. If you suspect that she's only interested in you for the money then don't take the chance.
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 12:49 pm
I wouldn't lend it to her. If she likes you, she'll remain in contact regardless of whether you give her money or not. If she's not interested, she'll be gone the minute you say you're not giving her cash. Have some respect for yourself as well-- don't let her walk all over you.
Edit: Yeah, what Keydeck said.
sea-king
Feb 18 2007, 12:50 pm
An opinion is not an insult, and Ossis are not worth the effort. So, Pooh,pooh to you.
Carm
Feb 18 2007, 1:03 pm
QUOTE (Timmeh @ Feb 18 2007, 12:18 pm)

It's an innate trait of the entire female population. I'm surprised this has only just dawned on you.
Oh, now I know why my parents brought me up to go to Uni, I thought it was to get my Mrs. instead of a real job after grad.
Tomasino
Feb 18 2007, 1:12 pm
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 1:43 pm)

Well... that wasn't exactly the response I was expecting from you. Anyhoo, sorry, Charly, I'm not single. Happy hunting though.
Oh my gawd, you're still hanging on?
Jenny, please. Just stop.
What part of "it's over" is so hard to understand?
Can you just give it a rest and move on? Please?
(No but really, it"ll never work. And your mom doesn't even like me. I think that's important too.)
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 1:15 pm

You mean, I AM single? Are you dumping me on a public forum??
QUOTE (malikos @ Feb 18 2007, 12:24 pm)

Should i just lead her on as long as i can, or should i end it now.
She also has a kid, so i sort of feel a bit sorry for her, single Mum and all.
I remember reading a piece of advice many years ago (from a female writer)
DO YOU WANT A LOVER OR A SOCIAL PROBLEM?
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 1:48 pm
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 12:32 pm)

What? You're not doing her any favors by pitying her. And you're not doing her kid any favors by being mommy's boyfriend for a few weeks and then leaving. There are lots of people without money in the East. There are lots of single mommies in the East. There are also agencies that deal with these cases. She's not going to starve to death if you don't lend her the money. If you want to give her the money, then do so. If you don't want to give her the cash, then don't. But don't mess her about.

Nice editing job. Now my post sounds totally ridiculous. To mess somebody about doesn't have nearly the same intensity as "fucking somebody about".
the vicar
Feb 18 2007, 2:22 pm
QUOTE (sea-king @ Feb 18 2007, 12:12 pm)

East German woman
Are you sure she's not just after money for sevices supplied? A simple case of cultural misunderstanding. I believe "Nutte" is the local lingo.
DB1969
Feb 18 2007, 2:48 pm
How old are you? If you can not think clerly in this situation...then give her the money
clementine
Feb 18 2007, 4:19 pm
women do like money. Some rely on exchanging flirtation for it, but most of us seek employment and earn it.

A recent trend amoung my female peers is that they tend to outearn their male partners and often end up financially supporting them.
Lifeisabuffet
Feb 18 2007, 4:29 pm
I am a woman and I like my own money. If you think she is a golddigger, then don't lend her money. If she stays she loves you, if she leaves she loves your money.
Uncle Nick
Feb 18 2007, 5:46 pm
QUOTE (clementine @ Feb 18 2007, 4:19 pm)

A recent trend amoung my female peers is that they tend to outearn their male partners and often end up financially supporting them.
Can you introduce me to one of them, especially if they're looking for a new partner!
Dafydd
Feb 18 2007, 8:34 pm
They want cash; you want gash. Sounds like a mutually beneficial exchange relationship to me. Go for it dude - it's only 2K.
Jenny L
Feb 18 2007, 8:55 pm
QUOTE (Dafydd @ Feb 18 2007, 8:34 pm)

They want cash; you want gash.
That's one of the classiest things I think I've ever heard.
QUOTE (Dafydd @ Feb 18 2007, 8:34 pm)

cash; you want gash. (...) Go for it dude
Dash!
Juan Kusov
Feb 18 2007, 9:02 pm
money for cunnae
Dafydd
Feb 18 2007, 9:06 pm
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 8:55 pm)

That's one of the classiest things I think I've ever heard.
My parents are so proud...
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Grinner
Feb 18 2007, 11:36 pm
2 ways to öose a friend..
1..Abuse their generosity
2.. lend them money.
perdido
Feb 19 2007, 1:22 am
I like Egerman girls they are hot.
Verwirrt
Feb 19 2007, 3:12 pm
strange, about 90% of the women who are from the former east i know, all are in top level, highly responsible positions and earn very well. They are much more down to earth, less superficial than their western counterparts. perhaps i have not hung out in the Prollo dorfs enough...then again, you are who you associate with.
Freiheit
Feb 19 2007, 3:15 pm
QUOTE (Juan Kusov @ Feb 18 2007, 9:02 pm)

money for cunnae
A buck for a *uck.
Verwirrt
Feb 19 2007, 3:43 pm
hey, that is honest enough...he he he he
Hutcho
Feb 19 2007, 4:12 pm
QUOTE (Verwirrt @ Feb 19 2007, 3:12 pm)

strange, about 90% of the women who are from the former east i know, all are in top level, highly responsible positions and earn very well. They are much more down to earth, less superficial than their western counterparts.
But come on man! By his own admission, malikos has "met a few East German women". A few is more than 2, hell it could be over 10! How could he be wrong? The sample group is huge! Its quite clear that
all East German women are money grabbers.
There are posts like this constantly from people that probably haven't been around much, and the way they like to cope is to make generalisations. Seeing as we're in Germany, it normally happens about Germans but it is by no means confined just to them.
malikos
Feb 21 2007, 4:52 pm
QUOTE (Jenny L @ Feb 18 2007, 1:15 pm)

You mean, I AM single? Are you dumping me on a public forum??
So Jenny if you are single do you want to hook up
perdido
Feb 21 2007, 7:13 pm
Back off dude. I own the rights to jennylfanclub.com
Jenny L
Feb 21 2007, 7:20 pm
'Tis true, I'm afraid. I'm saving myself for perdido.
perdido
Feb 21 2007, 7:23 pm
QUOTE (clementine @ Feb 18 2007, 4:19 pm)

A recent trend amoung my female peers is that they tend to outearn their male partners and often end up financially supporting them.
Really? Are any cute? I mean...
Lassie
Feb 21 2007, 7:26 pm
not sure that is a good thing mate - you don't want to be a sponger...
And be sure I'm not saying there's anything wrong with hot rich girls!
perdido
Feb 21 2007, 7:28 pm
Agreed but I have seen some hot east german girls as of late.
Lassie
Feb 21 2007, 7:29 pm
where?
perdido
Feb 21 2007, 7:45 pm
cant remember had the beer goggles on.
Her Majesty
Feb 26 2007, 9:58 pm
Come on give her the friggin money you tight a*s, I cannot believe it, what's wrong with you guys? Make her happy for farks sake, hahaha hehehehe.
Are all the English dudes so paranoid? I mean I am a German living in London and I think the English dudes are by far more generouse than the Geman ones.
Normally you can be lucky if a German dude buys you a coffee and glass of water when going out.
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