Ok just checked the Halifax & they don't list any charges for receiving, just £19.50 to send!
Space cadet, the RBS website actually says they charge £7 for receiving, maybe it doesn't apply to IBAN transfers or I am just being thick & reading it wrong...anyway this is what is says...
RBS I would be transferring euros from my account with DB to my mother with RBS.
Another note, if anyone has a UK address RBS has a sweepstake to win tickets for the F1 at Silverstone next month, you don't need an account with them (you won't win anyway :-), just a UK postcode.