My wife has relatives in Germany and we would like to move near Nuremberg for about 2 years. My job requires Europe and Asia travel and can easily accommodate me working from a home office in Germany and traveling locally by car/train. My employer supports the idea of the move and is considering helping cover house and car + misc. I will get paid and have health insurance out of the US. However, they will offer no tax equalization package. I'm concerned about the difference in tax obligations, and frankly just the complexities of filing (social security, German pension (double tax), state taxes, 401K contributions deductible from German taxes, hidden taxes, etc.) At this point I'm less concerned about many of the details and just trying to get a flavor if this will even be possible financially. If the taxes get out of control and I need to pay big difference from the US it's way out of my league, though even an extra couple of K will hurt.
Income (salary + commission) ~ $95K USD
Max 401K - 15K
Max IRA contribution for myself and wife
529 plans for 2 kids
Relatively simple/low living expenses (own both cars, max savings and investments)
Any ideas where to start even finding out if I can make this work from a Tax perspective. I own my house and will likely not rent it (mother in law will stay) so the mortgage will get painful (~2K / month) but hopefully that can be deducted against the German taxes. Anyone done the move from the US with a salary over $80K and not had a tax equalization package. Would like to have some insight. Thanks.