Hi there,
I work at MIS and lived in
Starnberg for two years. It's difficult to meet anyone in Starnberg other than your coworkers. I moved into Munich about a month ago, which, so far, has been a great move. There's just a lot going on. As for the commute, well, it pretty much stinks, but I tell you, it's better riding the
sbahn in the morning when it's clean than stressing about catching the last one to Starnberg and night and trying to nap amongst the drunks.
If you'd like more info, you can send a PM, I'd be happy to help.