QUOTE (Silly Point @ Feb 2 2006, 01:18 PM)

I was in Frankfurt the other day and came across a gang of American kids, all decked out in the latest fashion and jabbering away in English as if Germany was part of the American empire ... what? ... sorry I didn't realise
Exactly! Is it somehow for some people less 'offensive' to hear groups of teenagers speaking English than speaking any other ethnic minority language? Could that be because these groups of people aren't as pretty? Rich? Pleasant? That's a bit of a racist view.
So, now people isn't allowed to speak their own language among their friends while shopping in the mall? And at schools as long as the classes are in German the rest is not anyone's bussiness.
Those teachers should be working rather than eavesdropping in kids conversations among their friends when they are having a break, a time to unwind and relax.
My husband is German, my daughter was born here too but raised entirely in London, a year ago we came to Germany so my husband could spend some time near his family.
My daughter is 11 years old and doesn't want to have ANY connection to German culture. Why? Maybe what Adi posted earlier explains it:
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I don't think ANYONE is arguing it's not a good idea to speak German:
- in the classroom
- in the playground
- at any and all other opportunities
Similarly in the UK, we'd expect people to try to learn English. That said, if you live in any of the UK's big cities you'll be no stranger to government/local authority forms being available (at least) in several Asian languages as well as in English.
The thing is, you cannot FORCE people to learn a language. When you try to force someone to do it they'll only react by feeling victimised and separate themselves even more from the host country.
The money (teachers time) would be better spent on providing facilities for accelerated language learning instead of trying simply to ban other languages from being spoken. As well as not being very democratic it will also be a problem to try to enforce. How will kids who speak a sentence in a non-German language be stopped from doing so? Will they be punished? How will that help to integrate them?
My daughter feels this way, forced and punished, therefore now she has made her mind up that she wants nothing to do with this country in terms of culture or language. She as I said, is German by blood and by law but wants no part of it. I know she is only young but she feels English 100% and has made sure she surrounds herself with English friends because she just doesn't feel welcomed here.
In this school year although she has been having extra German classes she has barely learnt to say good morning or thank you but 6 months ago they introduced French classes in her school and she has learnt now 5 times more French in half the time.
Why? Because she isn't been forced, because she associates it with positive stuff therefore she enjoys it and wants to learn more and more, whereas German for her is a sort of punishment.
My husband is saddened by this but ackowledges that in general there's still loads of discrimination and alienation towards anyone coming from a different origin in this country and his own daughter begging him to leave this place makes it harder on him. He knows it isn't going to work in the long run.
In England when I arrived no one told me I HAD to learn English, no one gave me an ultimatum or patronised me, I was eager to learn, I wanted to because I felt comfortable and I did, badly but I did.
I worked, had friends and fully integrated, I felt truly at home.
Here the moment I arrived, I went with my husband to have the visa in my passport renovated and the guy there basically wouldn't let me go unless I signed up for an 'integration course' and said I had to learn German quick otherwise they wouldn't give me a permanent visa, so he gave me a 3 year visa instead.
Fair enough, I knew all that already but the way he said it, like telling me off was appalling, my husband ended up having a big argument with him and he only backed down when my husband said that he'd write an article about the way they treat people in these places.
Of course this is just MY own personal experience in both countries.
Luckily we don't plan to remain here forever otherwise I wouldn't see a future.
.. once something is tainted...