ok Luke, i suppose i'll forgive you
its not just my situation - i don't know how many women there are in the world . but that's a lot of situations
you're right about the drug companies, but these days the amount of hormones in pills are really a minimum compared to the 60s when it was first introduced. But i hope that tis new pill is available cos then you only go through it 3 times a year which i can cope with!! its also not 'normal' for women to have so many periods cos before we got clever , women were a lot more pregnant, & so fewer periods - but that's changed with our society and standard of living.
my man on the receiving end is very understanding (got lucky there!!), but i do also make an effort to pull myself together even though its very hard sometimes
i hope i've increased the male understanding of PMS a little bit