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Determining which social class people belong to

...or how to detect posh people in Munich

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pike
Like most English people I have a very acute sense of the class to which a person belongs.

Since I arrived in Munich I've been struggling to decipher any obvious signs of class.

Can anyone give me some tips on how I might determine who best to be seen with?

Much obliged.

mere
who cares what class people are from?!?!?!! if you like them hang out w/ them if you dont then dont. what does it matter if they are rich/poor educated/uneducated? if you dont get along or they are boring or crude or whatnot then dont be seen w/ them (just politely get away) what's so hard about that? what does class matter?!?!?!
DDBug
You know what they say, "If you have to ask ..."
MrRee
As a fellow Englishman, I can fully appreciate your predicament. However, rest assured.
I can secretly confide that those who smoke Dunhill Blue Superior Mild cigarettes tend to be the ones who will pour milk into their tea, and not the reverse.
Good luck!
Nadia
Fancy people raise their pinky fingers when eating leberkasesemmel.
Johnny English
Poster #2 is clearly "of the people".
Topsy
hmmmmmm.
will reserve judgement
jayhay
Interesting question you ask, and I don't think there's anything wrong with asking it. One of the first things I noticed when I moved to Germany (this was Berlin in 1997) was that I couldn't recognise anything about the people I saw. This went beyond social class, to social types in general. This made me realise (after the fact) how much about a person in the UK I had been able to know from just looking at them. Not so here. At least not at first.

The process of recognition for me hasn't been about learning how to attribute Germans to the standard English social classes, but more about groupings and recognising types. Specifically in Munich, for example, there's a class of young-people-with-money which I never saw in Berlin. Aged from 15-25, dressed and styled a bit too pristinely รก la "gute Zeiten, schlechte Zeiten", dripping designer labels and social confidence. Another general one is the haughty Kaufhof-Dame, 40-60, often with died red hair of considerable size, sans interest in customer service, working in the department store because of a perceived implication of status and authority (KdW in Berlin was full of these ladies).

A footnote, to briefly allay any negative responses to my comment: I'm not suggesting we judge people from their appearances, but we human beings have a highly developed sense of intuitive sterotyping which can often be very useful. Like, for example, that we can recognise the threat of danger in another person, although we might not know why.
Beg Tets
QUOTE (Johnny English @ Feb 2 2006, 11:30 pm) *
Poster #2 is clearly "of the people".

laugh.gif

Working class people here tend to have mullets, wear blue overalls and/or hang around the kiosks at the U and S-Bahn stations drinking Augustiner Helles from the bottle.

The upper classes are the people on the U-Bahn, generally in groups of 2 or 3 couples and only in the evening or sunday afternoon, that act like its such a big adventure to venture onto public transport with the proles.

Everyone else is middle class.
don_riina
English are quite obsessed with class - and more specifically class and accent. The majority of people will make snap judgements on your class and social standing based on little more than your accent, and perhaps how much burberry you are wearing.
DDBug
Oh, the Germans are very class-obsessed as well, just in a totally different way. It starts with the day care system, goes on through the school system as a reflection of their underlying attitudes ... (could go on for days here)
I once dated a (german) guy who told me flat out that he was "better" than the man on the street because he had an Abitur and was a beamter. (no we didn't date for long after that, especially when I found out his attitudes towards foreigners was worse, never figured out why he asked me out in the first place though).
mere
hmm... guess since i think class doesn't matter i am "of the people" oh well! smile.gif
Eleanor Rigby
this has got to be a wind up blink.gif

EDIT: after reading this thread I have to ask, is there really still a class system in the UK or are you guys joking around?
Lassie
most definitely a class system in the UK, though more chav, chessex and non-chav than working, middle and upper
benpanter
@ER: No, I don't think there is a class system. I'd have to ask jayhay and topsy which one I belonged to because I don't know! There is certainly some stigma/stereotyping from regional accents, but I don't think that constitutes a 'class system', just a grouping. Or maybe that's the same thing. I don't know...

EDIT: Thinking about it, there are groups of posh folks, but I wouldn't consider them to be a 'class' above me. Just different.
Keydeck
Class systems exist absolutely everywhere. Perhaps the meaning of 'class' has changed over the years but it is still very real and very noticeable. In general people will always make certain judgements on others based on how they are dressed, where they come from, what they do for a living, etc, etc. For example, in general you won't find someone who lives in a large spread in Grunwald walking around sporting a mullet. Why, mullets are prolle. Which football team do you support? The working class generally support 1860 whereas the better off will follow Bayern. The mullet wearing bloke won't drink in Lenbachs or Schumann's either. Class divisions exist everywhere.
Owain Glyndwr
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Feb 3 2006, 8:48 am) *
this has got to be a wind up

EDIT: after reading this thread I have to ask, is there really still a class system in the UK or are you guys joking around?

system is the wrong word, the class system is antiquated. There, however, classes in every society, even in Calgary. Mostly, these days, class is determined by money (inherited or earned). Britain still has a large differentiation between old and new money. So does the US, by all accounts, even though this is rarely admitted.
Eleanor Rigby
Are people born into these classes or can you earn your way in?
Katrina
QUOTE (Lassie @ Feb 3 2006, 9:04 am) *
most definitely a class system in the UK, though more chav, chessex and non-chav than working, middle and upper

And many Brits take it with them whereever they travel. And it says more about those people than anyone else ever can.
Now, I did indeed grow up in Essex (and not in the leafy part either).
And yes I can do the accent still.
For some it will never matter how educated I am, where I now live, what I wear, how much I earn, I shall forever be "common" (I explicitly use that word as it was used about myself by a Brit on this very site).
For years, I was made to feel ashamed of whence I came. Not any more. I wear my Burberry spectacles with pride (they have tartan-etched arms so a bit Scotia, a bit Essex-bling, rather like myself).
Have never worn white shoes though, I must admit.
Oh this thread surely needs this picture (for the fellow 30+ Brits):
DDBug
QUOTE (Keydeck @ Feb 3 2006, 9:08 am) *
Class systems exist absolutely everywhere. Perhaps the meaning of 'class' has changed over the years but it is still very real and very noticeable. In general people will always make certain judgements on others based on how they are dressed, where they come from, what they do for a living, etc, etc. For example, in general you won't find someone who lives in a large spread in Grunwald walking around sporting a mullet. Why, mullets are prolle. Which football team do you support? The working class generally support 1860 whereas the better off will follow Bayern. The mullet wearing bloke won't drink in Lenbachs or Schumann's either. Class divisions exist everywhere.

Mullet in Grunwald - does Mosshammer count?

Actually, I've noticed the opposite about 1860 and Bayern fans.
Mrs Coulter
QUOTE (Owain Glyndwr @ Feb 3 2006, 9:12 am) *
So does the US, by all accounts, even though this is rarely admitted.

I agree with this. One of my aunts still loves to use the term new money. You see, she and some people like her that had "old money" and lost it, love to remind people that they used to have it. She is a completel snob. I have to wonder, now that her husband and her earned some "new money" after suffering the loss of the "old money", does this mean they are new money or old money?

This might just be a Southern thing though. Do people from the North talk about the old vs. the new?
Owain Glyndwr
QUOTE (DanaRae @ Feb 3 2006, 9:20 am) *
This might just be a Southern thing though. Do people from the North talk about the old vs. the new?

The things I'd become aware of were upper east-coasters. That is where the real old families with really old money are in the US.
sarabyrd
QUOTE (DDBug @ Feb 3 2006, 9:19 am) *
Mullet in Grunwald - does Mosshammer count?

Nope, he wore a wig. Not completely committed there.
Eleanor Rigby
QUOTE (Owain Glyndwr @ Feb 3 2006, 9:12 am) *
There, however, classes in every society, even in Calgary.

I'd have to disagree with you there, I have friends from all socio-economic backgrounds. There aren't any schools that are posher than others and pretty much anyone with money had earned it themselves. Talking about and bragging about your wealth is considered immodest so no one ever knew whether your family had money or not. The same goes for style of dress, it's actually a lot cooler to dress casual and you'd look like a complete wanker (sorry) if you walked around covered in labels.
Ulysses
I find the biggest snobs are the "nouveau riche". You definitely can't buy yourself into the upper class, but who really wants to. They've all got genetic diseases and what not.

As for the mullett bloke drinking in Lenbach, he would never get in.

And as for Bayern and 1860, it has nothing to do with money. If you're a local you support 1860. If you're from elsewhere you support Bayern otherwise known as FC Hollywood. Exactly the same as Man U and Man City.
Owain Glyndwr
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Feb 3 2006, 9:34 am) *
I'd have to disagree with you there, I have friends from all socio-economic backgrounds.

just because you, personally, are able to move freely between classes doesn't mean they aren't there. Class can be determined by wealth, ethnic background, "breeding", any number of things. And whilst Calgarians might be more modest than some in dispaying their wealth, there are certainly classes there.
mere
QUOTE (Keydeck @ Feb 3 2006, 9:08 am) *
in general ou won't find someone who lives in a large spread in Grunwald walking around sporting a mullet. Why, mullets are prolle.

i live in Grunwald and i've seen someone w/ a mullet!!! (actually just a bit ago when i was walking in the woods w/ the dogs) biggrin.gif

@ER- i agree i have friends from all diff "walks of life" and they have no prob moving amongst others w/ diff backgrounds.

and i'd say the old/new money thing prob depends on what region you are in in the US. Midwest it's not imp at all.
Ulysses
@ER

So what's it like for someone from Calgary in Vancouver?
Owain Glyndwr
people saying "they have friends from all diff walks of life" or "socio-economic back-grounds" also goes to prove that there are classes in NA. Otherwise you wouldn't need to state it.
Johnny English
In the UK it is of course unacceptable to discuss what you earn, so it seems that the big issue is the car on your drive. Middle managers will porn their kids to get a 520i rather than a 318 as driven by the Jones's at number 37.

Same here? I got no idea 'cos they all drive tractors and mopeds with trailers round my way.

Reminds me:
Talked myself into a social gaff I think last year. There is a newish couple in our village, my wife goes horseriding with her all the time etc. They were round for dinner with another couple, and it transpired that they are in fact from East Germany. So I was saying "Wow, I never picked up a trace of an accent - just shows how bad my German is etc etc". I was genuinally interested - they could have been from North Germany and I would have said the same thing...but realised later that it probably sounded naff...like it mattered that they were from the East. Doh.
Ketchup
Lower Class = You sit in the "Fan Kurve" at the Stadium and wear a jeans jacket with all sorts of patches, bandanas, etc.

Middle Class = You sometimes go to the match but sit somewhere in the stadium where its a little more "ruhig". You can afford Champions League fixtures.

Upper Class = You couldn't care less about football but you might turn up at a sports banquet and bump into Franz Beckenbauer.
Eleanor Rigby
QUOTE (Ulysses @ Feb 3 2006, 9:46 am) *
@ER

So what's it like for someone from Calgary in Vancouver?

I don't understand the question? What difference does that make?

I think there is too much of this "wrong side of the track" dramatisation on television and movies. It just isn't the case. I'm certainly no exception.
Owain Glyndwr
QUOTE (Johnny English @ Feb 3 2006, 9:47 am) *
In the UK it is of course unacceptable to discuss what you earn, so it seems that the big issue is the car on your drive. Middle managers will porn their kids to get a 520i rather than a 318 as driven by the Jones's at number 37.

Same here? I got no idea 'cos they all drive tractors and mopeds with trailers round my way.

In Munich it is hard to impress with your car since so many T, D or Hs drive around in BMWs. BMW Factory floor workers here have the opportunity to drive a subsidised car, just like any BMW office worker. This basically puts the bar up if you are trying to impress.

The Mangers here seem to go to great lengths to try and show their rank (all managers here are graded and depending on your grade you are entitled to certain cars). If they can't have a 7-series they get a 5-series. The engine is just as important. None would be seen dead in a 4-cylinder, it has to be a 6-cylinder at least.

Sickening,
Eleanor Rigby
QUOTE (Owain Glyndwr @ Feb 3 2006, 9:47 am) *
people saying "they have friends from all diff walks of life" or "socio-economic back-grounds" also goes to prove that there are classes in NA. Otherwise you wouldn't need to state it.

No, there are certainly people who have more money than others. My point is there is no way to tell and it doesn't make any difference to what social circle you run in. This may be the difference between older cities and newer cities.

Calgary is a city of close to 1,000,000 people and none of the top designers have stores there. If you want Prada or YSL you have to go to Toronto or Vancouver.
Johnny English
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No, there are certainly people who have more money than others.

Thanks for clearing that one up for me ER. It all gets so confusing these days.
randy
QUOTE
there is no way to tell

10 ways to tell you're a Bobo
Kay
QUOTE (mere @ Feb 3 2006, 9:43 am) *
i live in Grunwald and i've seen someone w/ a mullet!!! (actually just a bit ago when i was walking in the woods

He's probably been hiding in the woods since the 1970s.
mere
@kay- hmm.. could be! smile.gif
Owain Glyndwr
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Feb 3 2006, 9:55 am) *
Calgary is a city of close to 1,000,000 people and none of the top designers have stores there. If you want Prada or YSL you have to go to Toronto or Vancouver.

class does not have to be determined by designer lables. fashion models wear designer labels but few have any class ( laugh.gif )

Calgary has its fair share of classy car retailers, although I will happily admit that Calgarians are less interested in cars as a status symbol. It didn't stop me being asked which car i drove on at least 4 occasions whilst I was there (so it must mean something). I also listened in other people's conversations where this cropped up.
Tim
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Calgary has its fair share of classy car retailers, although I will happily admit that Calgarians are less interested in cars as a status symbol. It didn't stop me being asked which car i drove on at least 4 occasions whilst I was there (so it must mean something). I also listened in other people's conversations where this cropped up.

Wait a sec. Now yer an expert on Cowtown? That's classic. laugh.gif
the Boy From Bozlem
I dont have any class and i couldnt give a sheet tongue.gif
Ulysses
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Feb 3 2006, 9:52 am) *
I don't understand the question? What difference does that make?

I think there is too much of this "wrong side of the track" dramatisation on television and movies. It just isn't the case. I'm certainly no exception.

I would think someone from Calgary would be classified as new rich in Vancouver which is more osrt of like old rich. Might be wrong.

In South Africa, there's definitely a snobbishness from the Capetonians towards the people from Johannesburg, the latter being classified as new rich.

As for accents, I can't stand some of them, especially an Essex one and I know in Australia, a Newcastle one can be a serious hindrance, but one of the nicest women I know is from Essex albeit you can't hear it unless she puts it on.
Owain Glyndwr
agree with you about accents, Ulysses, they play a large role in the UK in superficially determing class.
Ulysses
QUOTE (Eleanor Rigby @ Feb 3 2006, 9:55 am) *
No, there are certainly people who have more money than others. My point is there is no way to tell and it doesn't make any difference to what social circle you run in. This may be the difference between older cities and newer cities.

Calgary is a city of close to 1,000,000 people and none of the top designers have stores there. If you want Prada or YSL you have to go to Toronto or Vancouver.

So why would you want Prada or YSL?
Johnny English
We will catch him out now.

Go on then smartypants Owain - tell us all you know about the class system and cars people drive in...errrr...Shanghai?
MajorBummer
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In South Africa, there's definitely a snobbishness from the Capetonians towards the people from Johannesburg, the latter being classified as new rich.

Not true. We just find you funny. tongue.gif The "ky-daar" family as an example.. arriving in Cape Town in your Chevrolet+caravan.. staring and pointing at the ocean.. parking off on the beach with your umbrellas, massive picnics, generator for the tv.. rolleyes.gif

As to my personal definition of the social classes people belong to:

Low Class: picks nose, doesn't care whether other people notice
Middle Class: picks nose, tries to hide it
Upper Class: picks nose on the toilet only

I said it! TOILET TOILET!!
arshoo
Jesus!! just wafted throught this thread, why cant you do something easier like in India, all I need to know is family name and I know what class he is, course you westerners have spoiled it for us too and now slowly we need to look for clues just like you guys, whats it with you guys dont like a simple life dry.gif
perdido
crass but funny laugh.gif
mere
the whole "diff walk of life" bit doesnt have to be class. just diff backgrounds experiences since not everyone has the same background.
Eleanor Rigby
Sorry but those of you who are so adamant about this class distinction are the ones who perpetuate it. Classes only exist if you allow them to.

I don't believe in their existence although I know that others do and those that do are living with an antiquated frame of mind.
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