QUOTE (Persius @ Jan 24 2006, 3:26 pm)

Are you really "just asking" or is their a hidden agenda?
Seeing as you brought the topics and questions up, how about providing your own opinion.
Sorry if this sounds cynical, but I often see these type of "just asking" or "just thinking" threads ending up being a pretext for the original poster to preach some well formed opinion which they never had any intention of changing.
I have no hidden agenda here. I am asking mere mortals to offer clarity, which is possibly a risky feat.
I suppose if I were to scratch the bottom of my conscience for some sort of gratification sought, I might say I seek fellowship in my common man to discuss claims made by certain people in my life which should be addressed if they are true.
To be non-offensive while addressing this issue is by far the only approach, but an incredible struggle for me (understatement).
A random grab of issues could include sex, charity, and work, and what motivates one in involvement in each of these.
People get so freaked out about these, and I like to talk about such. Sometimes it gets exhausting.
For example:I honestly don't think people are born gay or straight, they just develop a desire and then go with it.
If I am wrong on this, maybe I was born gay, but somehow I am very hetero now.
Did I have to be gay? No. Hetero? No.
But that is beside the point. Interesting to me is why so many gays are so adament about saying they were born gay and there is nothing they could do about it, almost self stating that being gay is like some disease or something they were born with and which now they are condemned to make the best of.
Hey people! If you are going to be gay, be proud of it! It's your choice (OK, in my opinion). Live with your choice and be glad about it!
(group hug)
One other point on that: If certain acts done in public piss off the soccer moms, maybe it is a cultural thing. I attend the Love Parade, but like hell I would take my kids. Not everyone is used to same-sexers smootching for example. I'm not saying don't kiss, just be cool and aware of different strata and cultures. Thank goodness there is a love parade. What a relief! (And a release).
Anyway, another example:
Why is pre-marital sex bad?
There are so many divorces now, what difference does it make if you get married or not? Why not just do a "biblical" knowing of someone? They are a person you are devoted to, you love, take care of, and are committed to, and heck, you might even live with.
So let's make marriage really easy:
Go down to the magistrat and sign a paper "We are living together" - which gives you all of the benefits of marriage for that possibly snapshot of time.
Sure, that would be expensive and there are a lot of issues that are not that simple to solve, but in the big picture, what is the big deal?
Do people who say they are Christian and are against pre-marital sex have an incredible clue about sex in general? Are they scared of it? Are there many women in Christian circles who have gone years/decades without gaining an orgasm from their husband due to his non-experience, timidity, bashfulness or just the unspoken tabu topic hushed up so much in this subculture of society?
And, a big question:
If pre-marital sex is against The Bible, why aren't those other things mentioned in the earlier part of this thread? Or why don't those other things retain the same level of punishment?
Who decided this since those things were "written"? What is it called, fornication, where is that found?
I suppose a big point is "If God says it, don't argue, what God says, you just follow".
I just think things are really selective and convenient. Too convenient.
Gawd I hope it is sfe to say the more you read, the more insight you gain.
If I do a "sex" search in theBible, all I am getting is that we should avoid incest, because it can cause birth defects or piss off your dad:
http://www.biblegateway.com/quicksearch/?q...x&qs_version=31Please tell me I am wrong. And tell me some emperic method od selecting what you believe in the Bible.
I'm looking at my watch.
Another example:
If someone wants to screw up a relationship with their Almighty, what is a better way to do it?
(1) Sleep and live with someone you love (which I don't at the moment),
or
(2) Trying to make it hard for people to commit what you think is sin (supporting anti-abortion legislation, any gay marriage, etc.)
while at the same time you make no effort in saving them from an eternal hell that you are so sure exists.
Is it all appeasement of conscience?
If Jesus is love, and that love lives inside you, why the fuck aren't you waking up and telling people about it, instead of spinning your fucking wheels and letting them all die and go to the hell that you believe in and instead pursuing selfish goals and trying to get your way in politics, etc?
Why aren't you running to edge of the cliff to grab their hand to keep them from falling instead of letting shit they do offend fucking little you?
Calling Jesus...
"Jesus! They're using your name!"
"What? No! I don''t know who they are. Please come. Quickly!"
Does anyone think Pat Robertson is really a representative of Christ?
I certainly don't.
Thanks for your time.