Just got back from visiting a Hausärztin/Internistin... who shouted at me, told me to go elsewhere and reduced me to tears! Am I allowed to name her on here? If so, I will - I really wouldn't want anyone else to go through that, and she said she had too many patients anyway! So here's the rant:
I had to get some tests done prior to an operation next week and didn't have a GP, so I called this one two weeks ago and made an appointment - specifically stating that I needed pre-op tests and a general examination. When I got there, I waited over 2 hours in a room so packed that people were standing, only to be told by her that this wasn't a lab appointment, so I'd have to come back. I pushed a bit and said I really needed at least one of the results, as I have another ongoing problem - so she did it but said I would still have to come back the next week, as the results would be too old to use for the operation.
So I made another appointment for today, to discuss the first results and have the next lot of tests done. When I got there, they only had me down for tests, no consultation. Then there was a lot of confusion as to whether I needed an ECG, and one receptionist saw that I'd already had tests the week before and tried to tell me I didn't need any more - she wouldn't believe me that the doctor said the results were too old! She was very unfriendly and this whole discussion took place in the middle of a crowded waiting room, so that was embarrassing. Finally they agreed to let me see the doctor, but I had to wait almost 2 hours again - and since I wasn't allowed to eat or drink from the night before and have problems with my blood sugar levels (the other reason I was there), that was a bit of an endurance test in itself.
When I did get to see her, the first thing the doctor said was that I'd have to come back AGAIN for the second test results and examination. So I asked whether she could just do the examination this morning as arranged (we're only talking blood pressure and listening to chest here!), and I could just pick up the results from reception, since the first ones were fine and it was unlikely that that would change. Her reply? That I had "unbelievable expectations", I was inconsiderate, I couldn't just march in and mess up their system, there were other patients in the place too and she was working flat out, etc. etc. At this point she had to go out for something and started filing my operation consent form in my notes, so I said I'd need it back - and she told me not to make such a drama out of it! She then reappeared and demanded to know why I hadn't got ready for the examination, despite initially saying she wasn't going to do one. She said I was wasting her time, as she liked to process patients as quickly as possible and I should think of people with serious problems (suspected diabetes and a forthcoming operation obviously not being grounds enough to visit her). And she rounded it all off by saying that if I didn't like it, I should find another doctor!
I stayed calm as long as I could, but she was really SO rude, I ended up telling her that if a doctor spoke to a patient like that in England, they'd get struck off! I also said I would appreciate it if she would stop being agressive and discuss my problem, and that I was extremely unimpressed by her attitude and the inefficiency of the staff. But then I spoiled it all by bursting into tears! It was nearly lunchtime and I really have to eat regularly to control my blood sugar, so I was feeling terrible anyway and her shouting like that was just too much. It's bad enough having to have an operation (my first ever) in a foreign country... why can't they at least be polite? I would have swallowed the inefficiency and inconvenience, and even come back again if I'd had to - but why not just explain nicely? Surely doctors should be a bit more caring? I'm really upset about it, I feel terrible now. And the worst thing is, I STILL have to go back for those test results!
