I certainly didn't mean to pretend that South Africa's public transport infrastructure rivals Europe's or that it's as safe as Germany. All I meant was that
sheer should travel as she prefers to- if possible. If she doesn't like package tours, she shouldn't take them and nor does she have to. Although it is important to understand the dangers, it
is possible to travel around SA either privately or on public transport. I know, I've done it many times before. So have many of the over 9 million tourists that visit SA every year.
Here are a few tips on getting around South Africa:
Coach: Reliable and inexpensive coaches service much of the country and major centres in neighbouring countries. (e.g. www.intercape.co.za,
www.greyhound.co.za)
Train: Long distance trains are an option for intercity travel. They are slow but safe, cheap and comfortable. I took a sleeper on the Shosholoza Meyl (www.spoornet.co.za/ShosholozaMeyl/index.jsp) from Cape Town to Johannesburg in March last year (1400km, 27 hours, R240 or approximately €20). What a wonderful way to see South Africa! (And certainly a helluva lot more comfortable than some of the overcrowded ICEs I've been on in Germany.) Departures are far less frequent than in Europe, but by-and-large trains depart on time.
Mini-bus: Often unroadworthy and overloaded, mini-buses go virtually everywhere. Dangerous (due to poor safety standards rather than the occupants), you'll certainly meet the most interesting, friendly and colourful people on them. The national government is doing more to regulate the industry and improve safety, but by European standards they are abysmally unsafe. That said, I've met many foreign travellers who have loved the experience and wouldn't travel any other way.
Car hire: Many car hire firms operate across SA (e.g. www.avis.co.za, www.hertz.co.za, tempestcarhire.co.za) and the country has thousands of kilometres of excellent roads. Last year I hired a car (to travel around Gauteng, Mpumalanga, and Limpopo Province) surprisingly inexpensively and easily. Pick-ups and drop-offs can be made at different depots.
Taxi: All major urban centres have reliable taxi services, but they are expensive.
Buses and trains (in the city): Buses and trains are probably best avoided in cities as violent crime, especially on trains, is common.
Walking: Many areas are fine for walking, many not. It is important to realise though, that urban sprawl (more in the American fashion than European) and idiotic Apartheid-era urban planning makes getting about solely on foot virtually impossible.
Cycling: SA's cities have very few dedicated cycle lanes, so you're often forced to either cycle on the pavement or risk cycling in the road. If you are going to cycle in the road be very careful of motorists, who are not accustomed to cyclists. While cycling is probably not recommended for travel between cities, it is possible. A friend of mine cycled from Grahamstown to Cape Town (900km) in a week and said, despite a few hairy moments, that it was fantastic. Be careful on deserted country roads.
SA is also serviced by a host of private shuttles, dedicated driver services, hop-on-hop-off buses (
www.bazbus.com), etc. It is often possible to organise lifts with fellow travellers too (just ask around at local backpackers, B&Bs, hotels, etc.)
Hope this helps. Happy travelling!