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I think what you are experiencing is much like what would happen if a suburban kid
was put in an inner-city school - of course the kid would out-perform others, and
the kid would be better adjusted (presumably) because of a ton of parental involvement
in the kids scholastic abilities - an American father and German mother - the kid is
bound to be smarter than the same-nationality parents, unless both are highly
educated, etc, ---or--- the kid is put into the private school system. Also, inner-city
teachers don't have the resources of rich suburban school districts, etc...
Levon,
Astute observation, but still; I have a hard time buying into that because our prior experience (in the U.S.) was not in some affluent school district. It was San Jose, perhaps one of the worst in the neighborhood. Sure, lots of problems, but there was at least a genuine desire from the instructors to nurture kids' strengths. Whereas, here it seems they want the kids to be put in a 'box', and stifle any individuality.
Further (as I eluded to before), my sense is that this is not about an educational 'philosophy', rather, it's about minimizing the amount of time and energy an instructor has to put forth to be successful. It's not about the kids.. it's about making the job easier. If all the kids are 'contained' into the same level of skills, then minimal personal attention needs to be paid. Just teach the class and get it over with. Next...
OK here comes the philosophy...
Socialism:
I believe this attitude is a product of the socialist system, because socialism stifles incentive to do better. There is little merit in being a better teacher, or engineer, Waitress, or anything else. You won't be fired for mediocre performance, (even if you did, you won't lose your income - in fact, in some cases, you might be better off 'arbeitslos'!) and the best you can hope for is to walk away with your retirement. So, why do better? - it brings you little, if anything. I've had a few German people tell me it's silly to be 'into' my work so much.. People will just take advantage of me.. Hmmm.. May be right. In Germany, at least... Another off topic discussion...
Anyway, You can see this phenomenon all around us - Service in restaurants and banks and grocery stores and gas stations and post office and... Compared to what you get elsewhere, the services here are poor. And I'm not the only idiot who perceives this.
Another one... You aren't supposed to drive a nice car to work here. It's frowned upon. If you are successful, you are supposed to hide it. I know a (actually several) guy ho owns several very nice cars (he is very smart, successful, works very hard and deserves them) but he hides them in his garage and only drives them when he's going out of town.. He drives a Mini to work.
And socially, being entreprenaurial, enthusiastic and independent-thinking is generally frowned upon, or at least 'suspect' (unless of course, it makes you rich, and then they're just jealous, and presume you must have some sort of a drug or prostitution business on the side - must be how you make your money). Many people here just can't seem to grasp the concept of doing well because you... do well.
Class Division:
I'm not saying everyone here is this way - most certainly not, but the majority of those that ARE, generally have little association with those that aren't. I can only speak for myself, but I have friends (in the states) from all walks of life.. Affluent, Middle-income, and downright poor. All friends just the same... No judgements.
Doesn't work the same way here. My observation is that there is clearly more of a class 'division' than I saw in the states. ..and you don't even have to be very wealthy here to be put in the class of 'upper class'. If you are even mildly successful, the less fortunate don't want much to do with you and some will even attack your character without even knowing you. And if you are less fortunate, the successful don't want much to do with you either, presumably becasue they know you'll be jealous and don't want to deal with your jealousy.
Another observation is that most anyone living a normal 'middle class' life in the states would likely fall in the 'upper class' category here. I have a lot of stories about this.. One recent example: I had a German colleague fly with me to Washington DC on business. His first time to the U.S. Long story, but he was amazed (and frankly, quite intimidated) at how 'rich' most people are. Ranted and raved about how unfair it is that there are so many 'rich' people while there are people living in the streets...
OK, we spent little time in DC (where there is a lot of poverty) and most of our time with friends and colleagues out in Reston and so on.. but not with anybody affluent or 'rich'. Just normal, average, middle-class people with a suburban house, 2.5 kids and a dog..
Sure, there's more poverty in the states.. but the overwhelming majority of people fall into the 'middle class' category, and in general, live a higher standard of living than most Europeans. My sense is that there is a much smaller 'middle class' here - you are either generally 'struggling' (not a surprise, considering the high cost of living and outrageous taxation), or 'Rich', 'Upper Class'.. or perhaps better characterized as 'not struggling'. Not much in-between.
My 350 cents on Taxes and Socialism...
Yes, Bob, out of topic, again...
J