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I prefer a slightly quieter evening, just like the Original Curry night...
Alternative, schmalternative. If you fancy a quieter night out then why not just invite a few friends out for a curry. One of your main arguments is that too many people show up. Well advertising it on an open forum is likely to have that effect. Advertising it but asking people to PM for details could have exactly the same result. If more than the desired number PM you, will you just ignore them or tell them that they can't go. Either that or people will read the post and think, secret
curry night me bollocks as was my original reaction. Almost every time I come back to Munich we go for a curry on one of the nights. Sometimes it's just myself & Badger and sometimes there are a few more people. Toytown is a fantastic resource for meeting new people and organising events, but ones entire social life doesn't have to be run through it.