There were quite a few American children in my daughter's class. It was noticeable that the American parents were much more protective of their children. Don't get me wrong, I am certainly not knocking it.
I remember arranging to go to a museum with a mother after class. She was a little bit late so I suggested that we just walk out towards the exit and wait for the mother there. The child said that she had been told that she was not allowed to leave the school with anyone - so we had to wait inside. I was impressed that she had the self-assurance to say no to me. Also that she listened to her parents.
There were other similar incidents - to a lesser degree. American parents were just that little bit more careful - and rightly so.
I am only saying this because this loosening of the reins may seem strange to those who did not experience it.
You will find German (and other) kids alone on the streets after it is dark.
Yes, there is a reason to be protective of one's children. How much can one be, though? That is the most difficult question for a parent, I think.
Oh, and my comment to this story. It is horrific.
I do remember though, having some neighbour kids over and all of us raiding my father's drinks cupboard (we were probably 10-ish) and taking swigs of his vodka and filling it up with water, to hide the crime .. *cough cough* I don't think any of us actually got drunk (maybe the swigs were only sips). That is what (some) children do.
Back in my childhood, you could buy single cigarettes. We used to buy some and smoke behind the garage. Now that I think of it, why on earth did they sell the fags to us? We were about 8 or 9 !!! (first the fags then the booze - story of my childhood (NOT )!!!)
I do hope this child recovers without too much harm.
Edit:
I'm getting a neg.
A greenie from me, because I understand what you mean!!!