Würzburg has better looking girls. Yet doesn't really matter though. Once your in Franken your screwed.
Yep, this is the main reason I am looking to move out of SW, and I have also came to the same conclusion... I think I'm screwed. Franconia is just a bit odd. The girls seem to come in two kinds, those that like Auslanders, and those that don't. And in Franconia, if you aren't Franken then you are an Auslander, even fellow Germans.
I have nothing against the Army boys stationed locally, most seem to be stressed out kids that are tossed into a strange country/culture, away from family and GF's, and in a place were the alcohol flows freely and is cheap. But in my time in SW, I just haven't really gone out of my way to hang out with many, or had the opportunity to find any friends from that group. From the first day, I just kinda fell into meeting and becoming friends with my German co-workers. These German friends are a bit intimidated by the loud and percieved agressive behavior of the local boys, so we never end up anywhere that is known American hangout and I don't like hitting up bars flying solo.
That being said, I do have a cousin in the Army that just recently came over to German and is stationed in Mannheim. He has recently made a couple outings to visit me and I have came to realize that I really miss the pure adventure of the American spirit. Sure, we can be a bit crass (very), we dress a bit funny (camo is not a outfit color), and we are damn loud; but the absolute friendlyness and openness to go anywhere, do anything, and meet or talk anyone about anything all in the name of a bit of fun while not giving a shit about what others think is something my German friends seem to lack. I also realized after his visit that I have fell into the same routine that my German friends seem to have; work, regularly scheduled days at the Sports Club/fitness center/jogging, some other hobby, the same old keipen/discos on the weekend, and then vacation a couple times a year taking a two week long trip somewhere outside of Germany. I can't become this for however long I choose to stay here, so I've got to do something different... ie, move to BA or WÜ and meet some different people not work related. (and it would be nice if one or two were female
I can't even get my so-called German friends (most of whom are single) to take a long weekend with me to Prauge, or to spend a Saturday Brauerei hopping in Bamberg, or taking a train ride to Munich just to get away for a weekend. Maybe it isn't a coincidence either, but I have also met more females here in Franconia hanging with my Army cousin than I have ever met with my native friends. The term "wing man" just doesn't seem to translate at all.