How to find a girl I met on a flight to Frankfurt

Hi. This is perhaps a quite odd request but I need your creative ideas to find a person I met at an airport the other day in Frankfurt. The story goes like this:

I travelled from Sweden to Rome to work there as a personal assistent for a handicapped boy. On the way home, I met this wonderful german girl at the airport in Rome. I spotted her in the waitinghall in front of our gate. I don´t know who started looking but as we sat there for maybe 30 minutes, we frequently looked at eachother and we started to smile. I was with company and so was she so we pulled it off "behind their backs". Then we started to board the plane and as the boy I was working with sat in a wheelchair, we got to board the plane first. I was hoping that I should see the girl again but the plane was almost boarded and there were no sign of her. Suddenly I see her and I am stunned when I see that her seat is across the hall one row in front of me. She spots me after quite a while and smiles, she looks happy and maybe also thinks "what a coincidence". She sits between to strangers so it is not easy to keep on playing our little game. But we sit the whole flight and look and smile. After landing, she stands up and we constantly look at eachother for what feels like hours. It is like we both think "finally we can see eachother without being disturbed". I want to talk to her but before I know it she is gone, and I have to sit with the person I was working for. She didn´t continue to Stockholm as I did and here I sit. This happened a couple of days ago.

What happened is unexplainable. It was like two souls really SEEING one another, it wasn´t erotic at all or a game or such. So what I would like to do is to get in touch with her. I am not expecting anything at all if I should be so lucky to get in touch with her. Maybe she has a boyfriend, maybe she was just goofing around after all? We didn´t say a word to eachother, all I know is that she spoke german, or some similar language. I live in another country. I am not naive, or maybe a little. But still she touched me deeply and I would just get in touch with her. This has been constantly on my mind for a couple of days now. I have no apetite, I don´t want to sleep, I walk around with anxiety. Is she gone forever? Maybe we would meet someday, in 10 years or so if we would have exchanged e-mailaddress? Who knows?

So what can I do now? I have written down the flight number and her seatnumber (I instinctively memorized it after she disappeared). So there is information stored that contains her name, address and phonenumber in some computersystem. The question is how do I get it? I know they protect the integrity of every passenger, they will never give me any information about the girl straight out. So I am desperatly calling out to you guys, where do I go from here? Is there anyone working or that has worked on an airport and knows the routines they have? If I call them and tell them the whole situation, would it be possible that they at least can send her a message from me? Or is it very strictly forbidden? Is there any other way to get the info?

If you are working at the airport in Frankfurt and can help me in any way or know someone who can, please contact me. I know it is asking much, you don´t know me or know if I tell the truth. I could try to prove that I am a normal nice guy with only good intentions. I just turned 24 and work as a personal assistent, helping a boy in a wheelchair. We made a song together that is out on youtube, and we are working with an album now. I also study to become an assitent nurse. I will be working with the elder in some kind of residential care in a near future. I will neve make any big bucks in this kind of job but that is not why I do it, I do all of this because it gives my life a purpose. I just want to convince anyone who doubt if I am to be trusted. I have pictures and all sorts of ways of proving this should it be needed.

So please, if you know anything that can help me, contact me.

Best regards / Tomas

girl: Ugh, that guy is staring at me again, ok, be cool, just smile and hope he looks away
boy: She smiled! Our souls are seeing each other!

You might thing that this might amuse TT'ers. But this is not the first time that someone has put up such a story here. And by the way, what makes you think that the girl might be here in TT? For a matter of fact, what makes all the people who have lost someone, searching for someone, stared at someone in the Ubahn etc think that a post here will help them find the other person?

Btw, was she hot?

What are you, mute? Why didn't you go and talk to her and give her your business card? Now if you manage to track her down - no matter how, she'll think you're creepy.

The best you can hope for now is to run into her again somewhere and let's be honest there's fuck all chance of that happening.

Next time you "See a soul" open your mouth.

Learn for next time...

Its made me all lovey dovey inside. Good luck trying to find her.

I hear soft Soap Opera music in the background. Keep us posted as the episodes transpire.

I hear James Blunt in the background and it is creeping me out.

You could always try calling the flight company... I doubt they will help you, but you can always try. I don't think she would be on the forum here unfortunately. It really sucks to be in a situation like that.

I can understand you very well and I don't judge you for not talking to her, I had a similar situation when I was also 24 and it was also in Rome, I was eating at a restaurant alone and there was that girl eating with her parents not far from me, we were looking at each other every now and then and smiling too. Then they all got up, she waved goodbye and so did I... but was too shy to do anything, I was blocked somehow and I never saw her again.

To be honest man, you should have taken your chance when you had it, and talked to her. I am sure she would have admired your courage. The Airlines wil never give you her information, they could be sued for that. As much as I would like for you to find her I think it will be extremely difficult since you do not even have her name.

You had an opportuinty man and you missed it. sorry. There is one thing you could do though, depending on how determined you are, you could always go to this one website i think it's like studioviz or something like that, it's a german social site where a lot of german young men and women have profiles, I've never been on it so I don't know how it operates but i know a few germans who have it. you can always search through it for women in her age group who live in frankfurt and maybe you can see her pic and contact her.

***Warning**** this Action might have an adverse effect and you might come off looking like a stalker instead of a romantic.

Well, maybe you could come up with a story to the flight company, and tell them she kept by accident something which was yours (and very very important to you)that you showed / lend her. They can't know you didn't even talk to her. I don't know, a book, a wallet, a cellphone, whatever.
If she was on a business flight, maybe they can tell you the company who booked her ticket, if they can't tell you her name. You said she was not travelling alone, do you remember anything from the people with her that could give you a hint on what kind of business it was?
Also, she might be from Frankfurt (and she might not !), but did you try to find some kind of (german) forum for Frankfurt? If you don't speak german though, you might need help on that.

Flo

I had a similar thought about "item she may have lost on the plane". However, the airline would probably just offer you to pass it on to them and they will contact her. If they did, if she's honest, she'll tell them she did not lose or forget anything on the plane and that's it. If she's a bit crooked, she'll say, yes, I did lose it, give it back which would have been your chance to leave your business card with the item "she lost" but if she's dishonest like that, would you really want to go any further with this?

As for an item she might have kept of yours, the airline might do the same thing, offer to contact her for you and she'll just say it didn't happen and think you were accusing her of stealing something.

I think better yet, forget about her. If you are meant to be, you will meet her again, if not, you will meet somebody else.

I just see this in my minds eye.

I had a simaler experience, flight from Belfast to London. Coming home from a long week at work. Noticed a girl looking over at me fairly often whilst we where waiting. Didnt think much of it until we got on the plane and she sat next to me for the whole flight. We chatted for the hour and half and just as I was leaving the airport she grabbed me and asked for my number which I ofcourse gave her. I had a gf at the time so it went no where but it was a very intersting and fun experience.

I would say that she was probably visiting her BF in Rome mate, especially if she was on her own and fairly young. Go and have a cry over it and dont forget that your located in the heart of a country full of beautiful women.

I know that I can come off as a stalker but I´ll take that chance. Why shouldn´t I? Some judge me here but I know many have been in similar situations. I´m not the flirting type really, I have been in a looong relationship that recently ended. Off course I regret that I didn´t speak to her, normally I´m confident of myself but I wasn´t functioning very well in that situation. I had also a job to do and I planned to talk to her after we landed. I thought that we would wait together for the luggage but I was so up in the blue that I forgot that my luggage went directly to the plane to Sweden (doh!). As I said, I don´t know if she wants to talk to me now but the whole thing is haunting me.

Long haul: If you just speak of women in terms of hot and see them as objects, you wont have a clue of what happened. What I hoped for was to get in touch with someone who works at the airport. At work there are policies and I understand that but in private, people are more understanding.

I don´t really ask for her address or anything, I just hope that someone that is working there can help me pass her a message. Or for tips of other ways around the system.

Clapoti: Thanks for the support!

Yeah, maybe I´ll have to forget about her. But I´m not there yet. There are many beutiful women here in Stockholm but I can´t let this thing pass. I´m a fighter and I will give up after I´ve tried and done my best. There was something about this girl, hard to explain, we connected in some way. I am sure some here understand. We all miss chances but we normally don´t fight for another, we wait for new ones and they might come or they might not come. As crazy as I am when I try to contact her now, just as crazy is it to let something like this go.