Hello this is my first post on Toytown. I am moving in April to Bad Duerkheim to join my girlfriend and her currently growing belly. We are expecting our first son May 3rd. I know her family, and the area relatively well, and am almost fluent in german. But now I must face the question: Where do I go from here?

I am extremely excited for whats to come, but constantly reminded that I have no idea what I am doing.
Anyone attempted similar feats? I'd love to get some advice.
Thanks.