CT: While I can understand your frustration, from what you describe above you simply got poor advice from your broker IMPULS who is a big one offering
health insurance advice through all kind of marketing and PR. But the points you mentioned above, like not being told about the consequences of your decision for family members and so on reek of hard-selling instead of good unbiased advice. I,for instance, not only will of course have informed my clients that they'll receive the doctor bills first (which makes a lot of sense if you have an interesting no-claims bonus, because then you can decide to pay small bills yourself and get the no-claims-bonus after one year, for instance). As someone who is specialized in service and advice to Expats (like Mike Woodiwiss from Spectrum here on Toytown and others with similar specialized services spreadall over Germany) I do also offer to help with the claims settlement as part of the service since the commission one gets from these insurances is high enough to warrant such services without extra fees/costs. Unfortunately your bad experience is more the norm then the exception in Germany simply for the reason that the financial advice market has not been regulated like in the UK, Ireland or US to name just a couple of countries of origin of Expats where something like that would cause serious trouble to the person or company who offered bad advice. If you want to read a little bit more about the difference between a really independent broker and the majority of salesmen here in Germany, read here on our own website:
http://www.crcie.com/pageID_5814397.htmlIf you have read my own comments and advice here on Toytown sometimes than you know that I - like any really honest and unbiased broker - constantly make people aware that short term benefits from getting "cheaper" insurance can have dire long term consequences they also need to think about. And of course part of the most basic information to anyone contemplating private vs. public health insurance is that once you made a decision to opt out from public health insurance, the way back is very complicated and mostly totally barred. The following paragraph is a quote from our website with regards to the options for employees to decide between private and public health insurance, just to proof my point:
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Should you fulfill the provisions above, please read the information about private insurances for employees below and also the guideline there on when to opt out of public insurance and when better to remain in the public insurance (Public vs. Private Health Insurance). It might still be a better solution in the long run for you to remain in the public insurance, sacrificing short term profits for long term gains.
The full information can be found here:
http://www.crcie.com/pageID_5743775.html and, if I am not mistaken, also within the WIKI on health insurance here on Toytown. Potentially, though, this information was not available yet when you made your decision or rather followed in good faith some bad advice?
However I would like you to differentiate between the poor advice you have received from a hard-selling organisation and the benefits in toto a private health insurance can have for a number of people still. Having said that: you personally might not be among the people to benefit from this insurance after all, but that again is the results of bad advice and not of bad insurance.
There is indeed a measurement to see if an insurance is rather fair in claim settlement or if low premium prices are based on constant declining and battling claims. Every good and unbiased broker uses this information when pre-selecting and recommending health insurance after a research of what the market offers for a client. The information can be found at the website of the above mentioned Ombudsman and shows how many disputs about claims etc. are found or reported with each individual insurance company each year and the ratio of the number of existing insurances to disputed claims is an excellent yardstick to differentiate between good and bad insurances.
There is one lesson here in the end, while probably for now your health insurance choice and all related problems can not be dealt with easy and soon: for whatever finance related issues you want or need advice in the future, be that other insurances or pension planning or investment, get yourself help of a truly independent financial advisor of which some advertise here on Toytown and where you can see from the comments of other Toytowners if the advice has been good or not. That does not mean to imply that outside of Toytown there may not be other good advisors, some of which might be living closer to you then me or Jacqui Cummings or Mike Woodiwiss etc. But here on Toytown you can at least find some people who are only still here because they have done a fair job to others on TT, otherwise they would have been crucified publicly here already...
Cheerio and good luck for the future