Naked photos of your husband's ex-girlfriend

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My husband and I got married about one year ago. Recently, when I reviewed our wedding photos, I noticed there were also lots of other (old) photos stored in different envelopes, stacked up in the same drawer, which I had not looked at previously. Out of curiosity, I looked at all of them, and I came across a set of soft porn photos showing my husband’s ex-gf. In some photos she was in sexy underwear, and in some photos, she is naked. She looked pretty and sexy there.

At the start my attention was drawn to these hot photos, they’re really nice. But after a little while, I felt a bit uncomfortable, maybe even somehow angry, thinking why my husband (he is German, btw) put these photos here and leaves me a chance to see them? Why can’t he just put them somewhere else, like in the basement? (The photos are more than 10 years old, taken in different years, btw. He definitely knows they lay in the drawer, because he picked some other photos of his ex-gf from the same envelope some time ago to show them to me)

I know it’s quite normal to take these kinds of photos as a couple, but it feels not right to let me see them. In the next two nights, before I fell asleep, the sexy woman’s pubic hair and breasts and legs came into my mind and refused to leave.

By now it’s fine, I’m not bothered by her image anymore before I sleep. I’m just still curious about how others think of this. I have two questions, I will appreciate it if you take your time to answer them:

1) How do you think or feel if you found naked photos of your husband/BF’s ex (you may replace wife/GF to husband/BF, if you’re male) in your drawer

A. We can appreciate these photos together

B. I don’t specifically like it, but it’s not a big deal

C. I dislike it, and feel jealous

D. or add your other opinions

2) What you would do with these photos

A. Let the big boy keep his ‘toy’ and memory there (in the drawer)

B. He can keep them, but he need find another place to store them.

C. It’s not allowed to keep these, he must burn them.

D. or add your other opinions.

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I kept pictures of my naked sister for years...

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If a man keeps ex's photos, that's fine.. it is his "trophy collection", nothing more. Let him keep them, but they should be kept privately away from you, that was just a dumb mistake.

If a woman keeps ex's photos, that is wrong.

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Yeah. Imagine finding dick pictures in her pantie drawer. post-2387-1191786544.gif

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I regret to admit that I did the psycho thing and ripped up one particular (clothed) photo of an ex GF of my husband's that I came across one too many times shortly after we moved in together. It felt really, really good. Oh, those were tempestuous days.

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Batson, that sentence you quoted is just classic... Strikes me someone's taking the pee again...

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Well Tracy, no idea who you are, and it strikes me that there's an interesting contrast between the highly personal nature of your first post and your entirely blank profile. But as far as I'm concerned, your timing is fantastic and you've done at least three people a big favour... thanks so much for the reminder! :ph34r:

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Most likely, we lost contact, she spent a lot of time in the streets of LA and her claim to fame was Sharon Stone's body double in some trashy film. Anyhow, she made buck selling pictures of herself and I had a drawer full of them; had to explain that once or twice. Ummm, that? Next to the napkins? That's my sister.

But I've lost contact. And the pictures were thrown out after a cat electrocuted in our appt and set off the sprinkler system and everything got drenched.

Soggy, fried-cat smelling, sisterly, Stone-like, snatch snapshots? Not really worth keeping til they mold.

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In the next two nights, before I fell asleep, the sexy woman’s pubic hair and breasts and legs came into my mind and refused to leave.

No woman talks like this. Wind up.

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No woman talks like this. Wind up.

Why?

What's the right way woman should talk?

I planed to have others' thoughts from this forum because a friend told me people here are very smart. Till now, I have to accept the truth: people here are too 'intelligent' to believe simple things.

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Down load some pictures of men with extraordinary large dicks. Doctor them to make them look like home pictures i.e. get printed on photographic paper and put these in your photo album after your wedding pics. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander that’s what I say. Also I know a good divorce lawyer.

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apparently it's quite common for men to come across pictures of their ex-girlfriends

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I disagree - cuming across Playboy magazine yes maybe. Tracy you gonna post those gf pics or not?

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The reason why I post this here is I just wanted to prove it's a normal reaction (feeling a bit unhappy for a while after seeing these special photos) of a woman(if she loves him), becuase earlier my husband accused me 'you're jealous!'(yes, I was a bit jealous and I don't deny it, but that's noraml!) after I told him what's the reason made me moody.

But, well, since someone said even I'm not a woman, so I failed here.

My husband can keep these photos (even he said he would throw them away if I want), that's his past and memory. Carm, you're right, and thanks for your response.

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Are you religious tracy?

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