Abortion required or not?

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please dont judge me, just need help. I am a married girl living in Germany but I am not having any relation with my husband from last few months. Two weeks ago, unintentionally I had Oral S** with a guy who I met.. I still have 4 days in my next Dates. But I am feeling sick and having abdominal and back pain, and some other indication of pregnancy. Anyhow, today I went to a FrauenArzt but my test results are negative. According to her, its very early stage and she could tell me exactly about anything. then she gave me some tablets that I have to use for next three weeks if I dont want a pregnancy.

 

I dont want to have child in any case. Can anyone, let me know about,

 

1- is there is a way to avoid pregnancy using these tablets?

2- how effective are these tablets?

3- can I have an abortion without telling my husband about it?

4- and is it legal to have an abortion at this stage of pregnancy?

 

5- any suggestions, if I dont want to keep the baby as Dr. is not sure about it yet.

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if you only had oral sex how can you be pregnant?

 

Isn't the best way to ensure it doesn't happen mouthwash?

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I still have 4 days in my next Dates. But I am feeling sick and having abdominal and back pain

 

That's probably your period.

 

 

Anyhow, today I went to a FrauenArzt but my test results are negative..

 

4- and is it legal to have an abortion at this stage of pregnancy?

5- any suggestions, if I dont want to keep the baby as Dr. is not sure about it yet.

 

Of course no doctor is going to give you an abortion when you haven't had a positive pregnancy test and haven't missed a period yet. Especially if you tell them you think you are pregnant as a result of oral sex :blink: Relax, and do what your doctor tells you to do.

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Mystified as to what the tablets can be... did she give you the pill? Seriously what is the name? Was it a real doctor you went to?

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I'm intrigued, why would any doctor give an abortion inducing tablet when a pregnancy hasn't even been determined? :blink:

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Thanks all for your replies... It was not only the Oral S**. it means there was no intercourse... but he fingered me... so i heard there are chances to get pregnant in this way too.. also symptems that I mentioned .. backach , abdominal pain etc.

 

and yes these tablets are the pills which she gave me...

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He probably gave her aspirin. Of course he was likely flustered after she unintentionally performed oral sex on him. Whoops! Slipped again!

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Mystified as to what the tablets can be... did she give you the pill?

 

You can take some types of birth control pills (under doctor's orders, of course) in a certain sequence to prevent the egg from being fertilized and implanting in the uterus.

 

I think you only take them over the course of a couple of days, though, not for 3 weeks. But who knows?

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Honey, I wish you all the best but oral+fingers still don't make you pregnant. Just say you fiddled around and your not sure where he's been any more. Don't start with oral and then move to fingers.

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... 48 and still learning...

 

OP what is the name of the pills?

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It was not only the Oral S**. it means there was no intercourse... but he fingered me... so i heard there are chances to get pregnant in this way too.

 

Uh, no.

 

Were you homeschooled?

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